Masturbation is SELF gratification. Surely you don't expect to provide her with that!
The two are apples and oranges. Some people masturbate to relieve tension or for other reasons.
You should be happy that you have a wife with such a healthy libido. It certainly doesn't mean you don't satisfy her. It means only that she also needs to masturbate.
Don't make her feel bad about it, or badger her with your self-doubt. It will affect your mutual sex life, almost guaranteed.
2006-07-04 16:14:16
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answered by LazlaHollyfeld 6
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hi,
i know she is telling you the truth!!!!!
just because someone masterbates doesn't mean you dont satisfiy her, probably quite the opposite!!!!!!!
she thinks of you when she does it and thats probably the reason she does it.
if there is a reason for you to worry, it would be that she's not telling you that she does masterbate. if she didn't then she would be hiding something from you!!!
she loves you and you do satisfiy her, I JUST KNOW IT !!!!!!!
2006-07-06 16:16:07
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answered by rgreenkoala 1
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You probably do satisfy her, just because she masturbates don't mean you don't satisfy her. At least she is taking care of business at home instead of going out and doing it with another man. Just be happy that she is not cheating on you. Don't get me wrong, I my self don't believe in masturbating, but to each is their own. I guess the best thing for you to do is make love to her more often than what you do. And also another thing that you can do is try to talk to her about what she would like for YOU to do to her, and or you could experiment on her your self a little more to see what else you could do to get her excited.
2006-07-04 23:19:31
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answered by SapphireB 6
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Hi Robert <--- I don't know how old you are or whatever but, I'm seventeen and I have a boyfriend. We're both virgins but, we've decided to stay that way. Although, we are virgins we do engage in sexual implications quite often: such as, oral, hand jobs, him fingering me and such. We don't have sex but, we're both satisfied satisfied without it. Your wife probably is satisfied... but to be blunt ITS JUST FUN TO MASTURBATE! Me and my boyfriend do it every day (no we do not masturbate together); sometimes more than once a day. We think that when we do engage in sexual intercourse: we'll be better lovers! So your wife isn't masturbating for her personal pleasure, but for your benefit too. Me and my boyfriend are very satisfied with one another and we still do it. I wouldn't be that bothered by it....SHE'S JUST HAVING FUN!
2006-07-04 23:28:46
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answered by korniegirl1 2
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Some people just have high sex drives. I don't think that you have anything to worry about if this is a problem its damn sure a good one.........
2006-07-04 23:14:34
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answered by getatjayr 2
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u probably do satisfy her..she may just be a freak, and needs to come alot
2006-07-05 00:32:00
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answered by ? 5
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it is usually the women complaing about the man masturbatig to much, why dont you help her and enjoy it with her..
2006-07-04 23:12:15
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answered by 9929 3
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