Okay, basically my girlfriend and I had sex (it was both of our first times), I used a condom before we did anything and I didnt even ejaculate... She is now two days late and is freaking out on me, I dont see how she would be pregnant, but i would just like a second or third or fourth opinion.
2006-07-04 15:43:40 · 24 answers · asked by linkin_park_adikt 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Well, it is possible. The precum could get her pregnant. I got pregnant and we used a condom. I would tell her to give it a week and then if she still hasn't started then get checked. Basically, just the act of having sex may have made her late. Her body is adjusting to the different hormones.
2006-07-04 15:47:37 · answer #1 · answered by Ashley S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your description is accurate, she is probably not pregnant. The timing for a woman's period can vary without any connection to sexual activity - some women have consistent, predictable cycles and some don't.
Stress and other factors can affect the timing of a woman's cycle, so it's possible that anxiety around her first period following her first sexual intercourse has had an effect.
If you go to a drugstore with a good selection of home pregnancy tests, read the labels and pick one of the types that gives an accurate reading just after a missed period. These can cost a little more than the ones that only accurate if used 7-10 days after a missed period, but are worth it. If you use the 7-10 day style now, then you won't be confident that you are getting a real "negative" instead of a "too soon to tell non-positive".
It's great that you're using condoms, by the way. One thought for the future is to use a second option with them, like a diaphragm or even the pill, so one backs the other up.
Good Luck
2006-07-04 23:04:56 · answer #2 · answered by jcinjersey2001 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, First being two days late isn't unusually bad it's just not on the same day as it was last time. Second if you are going to have sex make sure you use really good condoms cheap ones break and end up in un-wanted pregnancies. Third if you can't support a baby you probably shouldn't be doing it because if she does become pregnant there goes your relationship (probably) and probably your life too out the door. Fourth if she is pregnant please DO NOT have an abortion it's just like killing someone, and somehow, someway that baby is suppose to come into the world that is if she is pregnant. just trying to shade some light on the situation.
2006-07-04 23:05:29 · answer #3 · answered by Alayna baby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you had a condom on the whole time ---then the chance is 0. Men do have sperm that comes out before ejaculation but a condom would have prevented any contact with that. Stress can cause a woman to be late. Most likely she is all worked up because it was her first time and she is late because of the stress.
2006-07-04 22:49:06 · answer #4 · answered by lisacna2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whenever you have sex, pregnancy is always possible, even with a condom, even if you don't ejaculate. That said, it is also possible she is late because she is feeling stressed out. There is a simple way to find out if she is pregnant: buy a test at the drugstore. If she is not pregnant (and I truly hope she is not), I think you need to reconsider whether your relationship is really ready to enter this phase. If you are not in a position to deal with all the possible ramifications of having sex, including the ever-present possibility of pregnancy, you should not be having sex. If you decide to continue having sex, you need to be using two forms of contraception (like her being on the pill AND using condoms) to make sure you do not make a baby. You are clearly not ready to be parents.
2006-07-04 22:52:33 · answer #5 · answered by just♪wondering 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is probably scared and worring to much about possible pregnancy and your body can sense that. Once I thought that i was pregnant was sure that I was and my body went along with it. Didnt have a period for 2 months and even got the symtoms finally went to the doctor got a blood testdone it was negitive reality hit 2 days later I got my period... A womens body is very strange. have her take a pregancy test to see if it comes up negitive I bet she has her period within a day or 2... Good luck with that. Also I am not sure how old you all are but there are places that she can go to get put on birth control if she is that much worried about it. check in your area if you have like a planned parenthood or something similar..
2006-07-04 22:56:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
...2 days late? Dude, chill out. How old is she? Can't be too old if it's both your firsts and your not married.
A girls period can regulate as late as her 20s. Until then, the chances of it being ON THE DOT every single month are slim to none.
Take a chill pill dude. I doubt she's pregnant. Either way, ask her to take a pregnancy test if it makes you both feel better about it.
OMFG!!! People, stop with the stress thing. THEY'RE TEENS! Stress is probably not a factor. She's a freakin' kid. How's her period supposted to be regulated enough for it to be "stress"??
2006-07-04 22:49:28 · answer #7 · answered by boo_6917 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, ask her if her period ALWAYS starts on the same exact day of the month..
For many women, myself included, our period is off by a couple of days or even more, and that could be due to many other things! Stress will screw many things up with your health.
I personally don't think she is pregnant...at least not by you, since you guys used a condom, and you didn't even finish, so to speak.
(One more thing to know, and you could tell your girlfriend too,is that a woman is only fertile for about three days out of the month, depending on her cycle dates... so unless you guys happen to hit it on one of those days, it is hard to get pregnant).\
Okay, one more thing: see if your girl is willing to begin birth control, such as pills, shot, whatever, as a back-up to the condoms. But don't stop using the condoms unless BOTH of you guys agree not to stray from the other!!! Hope I helped, and don't worry too much. Good luck to you both.
2006-07-04 22:54:55 · answer #8 · answered by brandon's mommy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly if you didn't ejaculate and you had the condom on the whole time then i really don't think she is pregnant. But, her period could be late because she is stressing about it. Tell her to relax, and if she can't then have her take a test and that should ease her worries.
2006-07-04 22:50:17 · answer #9 · answered by kaseymay_2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you used the condom correctly, the chances of her being pregnant are slim. Sometimes the stress of worrying can make a woman late. Just wait a few days, I'm sure everything will be fine.
2006-07-04 22:48:00 · answer #10 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋