She was 18 and a virgin when we met...we were married for a year. It didn't work out but to spite me she left me for my best friend in the Navy and told him lots of lies and turned him against me. The sequence of these events crushed me and took me two years to get over. I put in her name on the internet and found her doing a she-male on the internet in Miami. I am the happiest man in the world seeing that karma does exist and now I can get over her. Is this a normal reaction?
2006-07-04 15:40:50 · 15 answers · asked by X 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i think its a normal reaction, karma also can be a jerk, but looks like it worked out in your favor. enjoy it. then tell all your buddies,and also call your ex- inlaws and tell them what you found. tell everyone.
2006-07-04 15:45:38 · answer #1 · answered by rob 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
While karma does exist I could not help wondering why you are happy for someone who is living in a rut. You should be happy for her only if she manages to settle down nicely just like you are. I know she has been bad towards you but as a human still it is not nice. At the end, she is your ex wife and your name would still be associated, regardless.
You may think that you manage to pull yourself together finally but judging from your posting, you are nothing but still revengful.
It is not nice for a gentleman to be proud seeing someonelse's misery! If I were you i would feel guilty. Be a man!
2006-07-04 22:52:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds pretty normal to me! We are all happy secretly when we find out things like this about our exes, it's just that they hurt us so badly we want to see them in some type of pain or humilation too. I know that time is the best healer from experience. I can think of my ex now without wanting to be really evil to him.
2006-07-04 22:44:29 · answer #3 · answered by Tact is highly overrated 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To determine how funny it is depend's on how you look at it. Maybe she wanted to do porn all the time. Maybe she was lacking physical satisfaction , Maybe she wanted more attention, Maybe she realized that she didn't need you, Maybe she decided to use what she's got, To get what she want's without feeling obligated, or guilty, but yet free.
Personally, I find absoulutely NO HUMOR in that, I'd wish her success and get the hell on with my life, and utilize that wasted erergy that's focused on her to try to figure out what makes me feel free, & execute it. HA.... HA......
2006-07-04 23:21:30 · answer #4 · answered by DUMMY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ahhhh... Karma. Nothing better than to see someone you hate go down in a ball of fire...
Of course it's normal. I'm sure you wished her dead instead, but this is pretty good...
2006-07-04 22:43:24 · answer #5 · answered by DarthFangNutts 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were over her why should this get any type of action from you. OK, it was wrong for your so call best friend & wife to get together under any circumstance. So, get over it, really and go on with your life.
2006-07-04 22:55:15 · answer #6 · answered by msthinkpositive 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you feel like this because she made you feel so bad for so long. a normal reaction? probably. A good reaction? probably not. You once loved this woman and she is obviously looking for something which she hasen't been able to find. I would pity her. And then pray for her.
2006-07-04 22:47:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm laughing so hard I almost fell off my chair!!! Karma is a wonderful thing
2006-07-04 22:50:06 · answer #8 · answered by kandy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes its normal.. be greatful that someone upstairs was watching out for you, cause you could of ended up with her lol..
2006-07-04 22:45:49 · answer #9 · answered by preciosa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, thats normal
and Durn Funny!
2006-07-04 22:43:14 · answer #10 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋