i have a 18 months old daughter.love my husband.not sure about him
2006-07-04 15:40:00 · 5 answers · asked by ruchi m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
this is not rare it happens to alot of people that is why we have so many single mothers and i am for one of them,i left my husbund when my child was 18 months old,i didnt have any feelings for him perhaps we both changed we wanted different things and i still wanted to have alife not just stay at home searve him all the time,now it was the best thing to do i was only 18 at the time,i assume your olkder than that so you would have problems in leaving him,people fall out of love you cant make true love happend it can only happen with one person and when you have it it never goes away,
people are drawn apart thats how life teaches us many lessons you do what you feel is right in your heart and mind dont do just what you think is right,
2006-07-04 15:56:56 · answer #1 · answered by treatau 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is it that once a woman obtains a "copyright" status (baby) many of them don't want a thing to do with the man. I think this is refered to as the "Black Widow Syndrome". The Black Widow eats the male after reproducing. You don't want your husband. You wanted him when you were trying to have a baby (or not trying to have). Regardless you thought he was desirable at the crucil pointin time. Why not now?
You need to get professional help. The problems you are experiencing is an issue with you. If you don't fix them now having a different guy won't help.
Check out the following website. It could offer some insite to your problems. It also give a birdseye view of a guy's psyche.
http://www.condomsbrasandstraightjackets.com
Good luck
2006-07-04 22:57:52 · answer #2 · answered by hoyhoydc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not sure that he loves you ? or..not sure he is faithful? (maybe they are one in the same.) Well, when you have a child, you tend to focus on that issue (and.. I've learned from a lotta years/4 kids) and the 'two of you' take a back seat.. I know that's not how it is supposed to be (but it sure was/still is in my case..) I'm pretty confused myself..
2006-07-04 22:45:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't really understand the question.could you be more specific?
2006-07-04 22:50:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
about wat not confident do u still need sum one in ur life
sunny ;)
2006-07-04 22:42:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋