2006-07-04 15:37:10 · 15 answers · asked by rob 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sounds like she is wearing the pants so to speak. If you don't like it then talk to her about it, if that doesn't work you have the ability to leave.
2006-07-04 15:40:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, sex should never be made to feel like an obligation, although you should realize that women do tend to need the emotional feeling from intercourse more so then the physical, although the physical helps lol.. I was once with a man that the only time i ever felt loved, beautiful, needed , and special was during sex.. and so i craved those feelings more so then the physical act itself so maybe thats whats going on with your wife.. but, although its not an obligation, becasue sex should be an act of love not a chore.. you should give in at times even if your not in the mood, how many times has she perhaps did your laundry , cooked you dinner, ect and she wasnt in the mood but she did it to take care of your needs.. think about it..
2006-07-04 22:43:36 · answer #2 · answered by preciosa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obligated? No...
Interested? Yep.
2006-07-04 22:39:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not understand the problem unless you do not like having your wife go down on you. My girlfriend loves to go down on me but we both have very high sexual drives. If this bothers you so much, than you might try talking with your wife about this.
2006-07-04 23:42:31 · answer #4 · answered by andy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would you need to drop your pants to give your wife oral pleasure?? Where is your tongue?
2006-07-04 22:40:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to her about that, find out what she expects and wants, and tell her what you would like. If you can't discuss it with her and negotiate something that will work for both of you, it doesn't matter what the rest of us think!
2006-07-04 22:40:27 · answer #6 · answered by SL_SF 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She shouldn't manipulate you for sex. Everyone has their day and positionsand all that but you should talk to her and not be taken control of and do things when told so. You are not 10!
2006-07-04 22:40:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you refuse? and don't you expect her to be ready when you are? It's a give and take world. If you don't satisfy her someone else will, be happy she still wants you!
2006-07-04 22:40:37 · answer #8 · answered by anadah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should give it to her when, where and how she wants it. IOm sure she does the same for you. Enjoy it! Do you know how many guys would kill to be in your situation?!?
2006-07-04 22:56:52 · answer #9 · answered by lolaamor83 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think she wants YOU to give HER oral sex...
she's tired of doing it to you and getting none in return
use your Brain here
2006-07-04 22:42:14 · answer #10 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋