ok this man he plays softball with my brother-in law and i know the man likes me and he knows thti like him and he is also married and ..............................????? i really need help. oh yeah and by the way i am 15 asd the man is like 32 or 33.!!!
2006-07-04 15:35:41 · 30 answers · asked by courtney o 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
and by the way i have a BF and the man has already had sex with a 15 year-old girl but i dont wana have sex i jus wanna talk and if h ever asks me i'll jus tell him.
2006-07-04 15:47:20 · update #1
This is a joke, right? I can't believe a girl -- even one as young as 15 -- doesn't know the answer to this one. This guy is playing you and is risking serious consequences -- and so are you. You're jail bait and he could be headed to jail if you approach him. Don't do it. You know better and you deserve better.
2006-07-04 15:38:47 · answer #1 · answered by Fall Down Laughing 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, honey it is not worth it. He will use you and get what he wants and then kick you to the curb with the quickness. He knows better to be trying to even approach you like that, he is married. If his wife ever found out what was going on, she might go off on you, although you are a little girl, it's still not right to have an affair with a married man. He will leave you hanging, while he is feeling satisfied or getting secretly congratulated by other perverts, you will be the one with the bad rep and tarnished image. People will always look at you bad and will always have something negative to say when they see you. I have a cousin who was doing stuff like this when she was your age, now she is 20, and everyone both female and male say the most harsh things about her. It's nothing wrong with liking older guys, you can like an 18 or 19 year old before you start liking guys that are older than their twenties. Just don't put yourself out there for someone selfish and low like that, you don't deserve that.
2006-07-04 15:46:38 · answer #2 · answered by pumpk713 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many men this age and older will flirt and even date young girls in hopes of getting some "fresh meat". The truth is he is not after you seriously child. He just wants to play while the wife does not know. If someone told her he would deny it to high heaven and blame it all on you and then leave you holding the bag, girl. Wise up before you do damage to yourself that cannot be repaired and maybe send this Philanderer to jail and ruin his marriage. Though if he wants to play with kids that is where he belongs. This is not a nice man. Do yourself a favor and stay away from him. Tell an adult about him and get some input from someone you trust. They will tell you the same thing we all are. Don't be taken in by winks and grins. He will hurt you and all the other people around him if you fall for it.
2006-07-04 15:49:01 · answer #3 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing that can come out of this situation if you continue to try to get his attention is that you will get your feelings hurt and he could potentially go to jail.
Enjoy being 15 there's many years to come for 32-33 year old men.
2006-07-04 15:40:09 · answer #4 · answered by city_girl4you 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like him stop trying to get him arrested. Your only 15 you should be going out with an guys your own age. How would you like it if you were married and some teenage girl like yourself hit on your husband? You sound like you're a little to lose for your age.
2006-07-04 15:49:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him you want to have sex and he doesn't have to make conversation. That should do it. Men hate having to make small talk to stupid people. They don't mind having sex with them, though. Anyone who can't click on "Check Spelling" isn't going to have much to say about world affairs or books.
All that can happen is your b-in-l will castrate him with a broken beer bottle, his wife will divorce him, he'll get 18 months in jail for child molesting and his children will be fatherless for the rest of their lives. If you climax twice, that should be worth it.
Fool.
2006-07-04 15:43:22 · answer #6 · answered by Adam Zapple 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOUR 15? GO TO BED. Your too young to even be thinking about a man of that age. MORE SO one that is married. And if he has half a brain he'll run away from you.
2006-07-04 15:40:30 · answer #7 · answered by GRUMPY 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to find you a guy friend more your age, and not start your life by giving it up for a married man. Once you mess up things go down hill from there.
2006-07-04 15:39:10 · answer #8 · answered by msthinkpositive 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't you stay away. There's something wrong with a 30 something year old man that has sex with 15 year old girls.
2006-07-04 15:49:31 · answer #9 · answered by wishorstish 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's MARRIED. You do NOT approach him that way! If you like older guys, then wait until you're 18 and look for SINGLE 30-plus men on a dating site. Doubtless you'll get offers.
2006-07-04 15:39:20 · answer #10 · answered by wmp55 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋