she istill get together with me from time to time..
2006-07-04 15:34:27 · 11 answers · asked by mocoso86 1 in Education & Reference ➔ Teaching
I think there is more to the story than she is telling you. That answer is vague at best. I would ask her to accompany you to counseling to work on a reunification date. If she refuses, you should go by yourself to see if you can sort out what is going on with the two of you. The old saw is "Men leave a relationship for another woman, and women leave to be alone." Maybe she really does need "some time," but I would try to find a way to make it happen inside the parameters of your marital home. Good luck.
2006-07-04 15:43:48 · answer #1 · answered by StudentoftheHumanCondition 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on why are you two separated in the first place? If she felt like she was being ignored by you, then she wants to see if life is better without you in it. That may seem mean, but I did it too. I lived with a guy for 4 years & e rarely spoke a word to me. I spent a lot of time at home alone wondering wy he doesn't love me enough to just talk to me. I always hear that women like to talk more than men, but is 10 minutes a day too much to ask? I mean, he wanted sex, I wanted to talk! Both are about 10 mins long (he fell asleep after wards). It is a GIVE & take. If you don't give anything she needs, you recieve nothing back.
2006-07-04 23:01:11 · answer #2 · answered by Xtal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looking for an "average" is a bad idea. Your wife is a specific person with a specific idea of what she wants or what she is searching for. Use the time apart to decide how your life should continue whether with her or not. Once you know what you want in a relationship, you will be in a better position to give her what she needs or survive if she doesn't come back. Best of luck to you.
2006-07-04 22:55:57 · answer #3 · answered by RDW928 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um...i just gave my husband that same story because i needed to figure out what i was going to do - stay in a bad relationship and try to work on it or get the hell out.
ok, it was 4 months ago and he is being served with divorce papers.
move on, save your dignity and find someone you can enjoy the rest of your life with.
2006-07-04 22:54:53 · answer #4 · answered by bluebutterfly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually, when a woman decides "she needs time for herself", that can't be a good thing. Wait a little if you will, but then move on. Life's about moving on. Yeah, sick, I know, but that's what it's like.
2006-07-04 22:40:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends if she is willing to make the relationship work. maybe a week, if you don't see her in a week, you guyes may need counseling.
2006-07-04 22:38:35 · answer #6 · answered by mrskj007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She won't be coming back! You are missing the big picture bud, that's why she's gone!
2006-07-04 22:41:06 · answer #7 · answered by want2flybye 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she is stringing you along, and using you for a booty call "from time to time".
2006-07-04 22:59:24 · answer #8 · answered by mischa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give her some time to make up her mind on what she want to do but still go on with yours
2006-07-05 01:32:05 · answer #9 · answered by telly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 weeks then she will come pick her stuff up to move into her new mans house.
2006-07-04 22:37:55 · answer #10 · answered by Shannon W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋