I find this confusing. If one is gay then he cannot love a woman. Love and sexual attraction are intertwined. So if a man can fall in love with a woman then he is not truely gay. Unless of course he is into the political side of being gay and then its more of a hobby then a true sexual orientation. If love and sex were compleatly unrelated then would'ent some people live with the person they love and screw the people they are turned on to. This seldom happens because the people we love would be very hurt if we did that. I'm sorry if I am responding to my own question. I only want to bring up a debate about the subject. Lets see what we can come up with here. Lets here what folks have to say.
2006-07-04 15:25:21 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
No. If he falls in love with a woman, then he is bisexual. Once you stop ignoring bisexuality, everything makes a whole lot more sense.
2006-07-04 15:29:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 21⤊ 4⤋
Certainly! First and foremost he is a PERSON! People all the time fall in love with people that either they or others think it's impossible for them to love.
I don't advise them becoming partners, because the problems could be overwhelming, but then, they probably won't ask for my advice.
The chances of a gay man falling in love with a woman are significantly lower than a straight man's, though, because gay men don't usually look at women with attraction in mind. That is to say, they actually meet her, not "check her out" as much as straight guys. And much of romantic love begins with physical attraction.
Stranger things have happened. Lots and lots of stranger things have happened.
2006-07-04 15:38:20 · answer #2 · answered by LazlaHollyfeld 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There have been many marriages made up of a gay man and a woman. The reasons for marriage may not have been sexual, but if the marriage has endurance, I am sure there is love there.
2006-07-04 15:30:37 · answer #3 · answered by littleflower_57 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Believe me, a gay can really fall in love with a woman. Ive known 3 gays who even married a girl and built a family but is still a self-confessed gay. Building a family of his own didnt made him stop being a gay. No doubt about it. Two of these gays i know are still living happily together with their own wife however, one of them is already separated.
2006-07-04 15:41:27 · answer #4 · answered by lilac 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think that there are different types of love and your theory is not adequately accounting for that. For example, you don't have sex with your parents, yet you still love them. Another example is many people love their friends (women especially love their friends; I assume that guys do too, but they don't express it as openly), but you don't have sex with them. I think that it is the same with a gay man. Gay men can love women, just like I (as a straight woman) can love women- we both love them as friends.
2006-07-04 15:31:14 · answer #5 · answered by Princess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my case, I can surely say that I would not fall for a woman... I may have close friends but I do not think that I would really fall in love... I have seen gays who are married and have kids - I am not really sure how they feel... maybe it really depends on the person...
2006-07-04 15:32:11 · answer #6 · answered by boo0726 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think in he can in a HEALTHY way. Maybe he is fighting being a man, which he obviously is if he is in love with a woman.
I think people need to stop making sex a recreation and come back to involving it with real intimacy. Then, we would not play with others' emotions.
2006-07-04 15:30:16 · answer #7 · answered by L B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's a predictable Yahoo Answers answer: That's the Lord providing some well-needed divine intervention. I'm an ignorant, over zealous religious person who believes that every single problem in the world can be solved through faith.
2006-07-04 15:30:01 · answer #8 · answered by alex_sublime 2 · 0⤊ 5⤋
why not...naturally he is a man ok
2006-07-04 15:27:46 · answer #9 · answered by omeyl_omeyl84 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋