well there is this gurl who is always tellin my boyfriend bad things bout me and she is always leaving me behind and i hvnt done anythng to her i have always been there for her and done eveything she says so wut do u think is her problem?
2006-07-04 15:23:55 · 22 answers · asked by MuFfInZ 1 in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
Her problem is that she doesn't really care about you at all. Listen to what you just said, "I have always been there for her and done everything she says". Who died and made her queen? This friend of yours sounds like she is power tripping and sounds like she uses you when it is convenient for her and drops you when she is with other people. I say you could lose her and you wouldn't be losing anything at all really. You should be able to tell who true friends are. They stand by you. They like you for who you are. They help you out too, they don't just count on you to help them all the time.
2006-07-04 15:28:58 · answer #1 · answered by Tact is highly overrated 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
From the way u talkin about u do everything she tells you and she leaves u behind tells me that she just feels that you are going to be there no matter how bad she treats you -so you need to drop her. forget her i know u think she is yo friend but obviously she dont care about yo friendship if she actin like that and dont worry about what she tellin yo boyfriend if he want to be w/ u then no matter what she says he wont believe her -people just find reasons not to like you but thats the way life is the same things happen to me and when they see that i aint studin them they move on- anyway hope that helped you!!!!!!
2006-07-04 22:37:54 · answer #2 · answered by fluffy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems as though she wants your man!!! Why else would she make you look bad? She is not a real friend! Keep her away from your boyfriend and also, question her about her actions! She shouldn't think that your boyfriend isn't telling you what she is saying!
2006-07-04 22:38:43 · answer #3 · answered by delfin716 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She doesn't mean anything bad about you.
Generally, girls have no general talking points as they always try not to show who they are & what is running in their minds. So, they almost always talk about their mother & sisters & sometimes, brothers & friends.
Take it light. Be gald that it is you who are talikng about.
Do you know Oscar Wilde & what he has said about talking about.
'Worse than talikng about you is NOT talking about you'!
Why do you bother unless you too are interested in the bf.?
2006-07-08 23:44:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually when people act like this girl does, it is a low self esteem issue. They treat other people badly because inside they feel horrible about themselves and dont know how to deal with it.
2006-07-04 23:16:11 · answer #5 · answered by lisa s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is probably jealous of you and she wants to be you or she wants your boyfriend but is trying to make your life miserable but don't take it forget about it and live your life.She's just wanting attention but can't have it, I have the same problem.
2006-07-05 02:27:55 · answer #6 · answered by Hotmom1216 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People often mistake aquaintances for friends. This girl is no friend. Chum around with others.
2006-07-11 19:20:56 · answer #7 · answered by D M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop doing everything she says you're a mindless puppet, she has no respect for you. STAND UP for yourself and SAY NO!!!!!! Stop being so nice to everyone.. you're a people pleaser and you can't please everyone all the time so stop trying. it really isn't her problem it is your problem.. I am not saying being nice is bad but being TOO nice and afraid to say no IS bad.
2006-07-04 23:44:54 · answer #8 · answered by xwordxclr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hang with some new trustworthy friends.
2006-07-04 22:28:05 · answer #9 · answered by robert p 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's jealous, and your young this goes on all the time in your age bracket.
2006-07-06 17:50:44 · answer #10 · answered by Granny 1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋