When will my girlfriend realize that she needs to keep me happy, not her parents?

Answer 1

What you have to realize is that she needs to keep both you and her parents happy.. not one or the other. Once you accept this, this will make things much easier when you talk to her. Tell her how you feel (nicely) and actually listen to what she has to say. Try to put yourself in her position. Are you being fair?

Answer 2

As soon as you realize that you need to keep her happy as well as her parents if you expect to ever have a real relationship with her or any other girl. When you start treating her like she is made of Gold and her parents like they are the best people in the Universe then she will start to Want to keep you happy. Until then you might as well forget it.

Answer 3

The way you worded this makes you sound like a real ***, as if you're saying, "Why can't she just tell her beloved parents to just screw (to put it in noncensored terms) off? She should only ever worry about keeping me happy. She's MINE, not their's..", but I can see you perhaps meaning it in a different way..

Is she absorbed by her parents, a real mama/daddy's girl who just lives to delight them and to entirely or usually ignore your wants and needs to constantly entertain her parental unit to leave you in the cold? If so, that's not cool. As a couple I think both of your world's should be all about eachother, not to a freakish extent.. but you know what I mean.. Her parents shouldn't be her LIFE. I'd talk to her about it and see if that could be resolved.

Further details on the situation needed for an accurate answer I'd say.

Answer 4

First of all, she needs to worry about herself. You sound just like my sister's boyfriend, who hangs out with her just to get some services from her. Her goal is not to keep you happy, it is to have mutual happiness. If you do not understand this, then you are self-centered and ignorant, and probably don't deserve her, who is actually listening to the wisdom of her parents!

Answer 5

Exodus 20:12 says, Honor your dad and mom, and you will have a long life.

So she is honoring her parents. I don't read nothing that says she has to keep you happy as her boyfriend. As her husband it would be a different story, but then you would have rules too!

Answer 6

If she is under age and living at home she needs to keep her parents happy. You should not worry about her keeping you happy. you should worry about you keeping her happy.

Answer 7

i know its hard hun...my ex b/f use to be same and it ended up bein the end of us...but hopefully u guys will pull thru...the secret is to support her and try to give her credit for making her parents happy...at same time she needs to be told by u that ur bein neglected in the gentlest way u can muster...dont cause a fight over it just say to her...i need u too and it would be nice to have u to myself for a few hrs a day ....at least try to compromise cos thats the key to a proper relationship..tellin her straight to give u all her attention will drive her away...just be patient...make the time u guys do have special to her and fun cos then she will realise herself what she is missing and b4 long u will have her undivided attention... just dont be demanding...compromise!

Answer 8

If she's still living with her parents and/or a minor..then she needs to keep her parents happy..sorry!!

Answer 9

Her job is NOT to keep you happy, at least NOT until you marry her. Until then she is under no obligation to you. And then when you marry it is YOUR job to make her happy. If you focus on yourself, the marriage will fail. She must do the same.

Good luck.

Answer 10

when you grow up - get a lucrative job so you can support her, provide for her physical needs , acquire the wisdom that you need to advise her in things maturely and intelligently - in other words just about the time you figure out that you are wrong at this time.