there's this guy at school.he asked me out and we are having an unstable relationship.he tells me he loves me with all his heart but he completely ignores me when he is around his friends or his family members.
2006-07-04 14:59:28 · 6 answers · asked by angellle 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Love takes time to develope, and there are different kinds of love. He sounds immature and his behavior is not like someone who loves you. Are you ready for real love and commitment anyway?
2006-07-04 15:07:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask the question then it definatly isn't love. Love is where you need to see, touch, smell, and just take in everything about the other person. You don't need anything else but that person. Now you don't have to be up each others behinds either but just thinking of that person should make you take a deep breath with your eyes closed.
2006-07-04 22:12:19 · answer #2 · answered by 4me473 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
True love is when someone helps take care of you through the stomach flu and is around when you get to feeling better!
Anyone who ignores you when his friends or family is around is not someone you want to waste time on.
2006-07-04 23:12:22 · answer #3 · answered by AccountableLady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, whaddya expect? he only knows you for a short period of time while he belongs to his family forever. sometimes, it takes a sacrifice to make the person we love happy. respect the fact that he's closer to his family and friends than you. you're gonna face this problem not only for now, but after you get married you'll have to cope with fussy mother in law, nephews and nieces who love to hang around with your husband because he's their favourite uncle and many more. just relax. don't let small problems like this one affect your relationship.
like wise men say: if you can't beat them, join them! move closer to his family members. not only that they will love you more, your boyfriend would like you better because you can mingle with his family members
2006-07-04 22:43:11 · answer #4 · answered by calixte 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow.. now this is a confusing stuation. think it over, n remember, "boys will be boys". so if he at times ignores u to be with his friends, take it lightly. tell him what do u feel, n wat do u want. n then see if he is willing to adjust n change.. good luck..
2006-07-04 22:52:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when u don't have to ask other people if they think he loves u.
2006-07-04 22:09:23 · answer #6 · answered by *~JeS~* 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋