im male 44 married 2 kids good job money etc happy well groomed fit well looking etc.
feel a like i'm just a check book to my wife.
do lady's really care & love any more or is it all just about money etc
2006-07-04 14:48:22 · 7 answers · asked by ahfixleigh 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I feel that ladies do still love...but are you making yourself just a checkbook to your wife...spend time with her...cook for her...tell her how beautiful she looks...We as women sometimes forget to pamper our men when the hustle and bustle of every day life takes the front focus...it is up to you men to remind us what is important...we do not mean to lose focus on what is important it justs happen..so you need to make the effort to let her know that you need her...
2006-07-04 15:03:16 · answer #1 · answered by destine4_69 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You seem like a very nice guy. Maybe she doesn't realize that she acts like your money is her main interest. Many women care much more about loving someone than how much they can spend off them. Many women also act in certain ways that make things appear far from how they truly are. Tell her how she makes you feel, and ask her how she feels. If you talk to her and she was never aware of how she acted and hadn't thought about the missing affection between you two, then she could very well change things for the better. If instead, she reacts in a way that shows to you that money is what's important to her, then the problem's with her, not with women in general.
2006-07-04 15:15:32 · answer #2 · answered by Necro 1211 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh man, I am so sorry. Yes, women do still care and love. I mean, most women do like to be spoiled, but you make it sound like she expects it, and that's just not cool. A marriage needs to be about respect and trust and love. If I might suggest, talk to her about it or go to a couple of councelling sessions, just to talk it out for yourself.
2006-07-04 15:13:34 · answer #3 · answered by Church Music Girl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Womne still love and despite women's lib...We still like for you guys to open doors, call when we are out of town, make plans for us, and smile at us inside so we won't be jealous when you smile at women outside.
2006-07-04 14:54:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey bro, women dont know what the hell they want. just when they think they got what they want, they want something else. never happy! i stopped trying so hard. i figured out that if you can keep the money comming, then too hell with what shes unhappy with next, she aint going anywhere.
2006-07-04 14:56:02 · answer #5 · answered by rob 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is not all about the money...........we want affection and attention!
2006-07-04 14:59:12 · answer #6 · answered by sn3w14 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think so man.. ladies still love, n do for us n for the relationship more than wat we men can.. so keep hanging..
2006-07-04 15:54:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋