im entering college in september and im still a virgin. i wanna know if all people get nervous before their first time. how do i deal with it?
2006-07-04 14:43:12 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
I was nervous my first time. I think that everybody is, but you know what...after the first time, it all goes away and you'll be so glad provided the postive circumstances that you did. You'll feel like a brand new person. Make sure you have sex with a person that matters. Don't waste your first time on a STD carrying slut.
2006-07-04 14:51:35 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Dude, don't worry about it. A huge chunk of people you'll meet at college will be virgins too.
First time can be scary and of course you're going to be nervous. But if it's with someone you really love then your natural feelings will wash away any nervousness.
If you're trying to have sex just to say you're not a virgin anymore or want to try it out with someone you don't love then you will probably be nervous.
2006-07-04 21:48:10 · answer #2 · answered by Scooter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're really not so young to be a virgin still. When the time comes, you will know what to do. So relax and enjoy dating and just having fun.
One of my friends had sex with a 24 year old virgin and he said afterwards "so is that what sex is?"....don't say anything stupid like that.
2006-07-04 22:20:36 · answer #3 · answered by Dellajoy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should wait until you are married. There are a lot of diseases that you can get on your "first time". A friend of mine got HPV on her first time. Getting an STD would make more nervous that having sex for the first time. Hope this helps.
2006-07-04 21:49:38 · answer #4 · answered by cilacysg 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah sometimes. Being nervous makes us do the job accurately and carefully....However, it is not necessary to be nervous because there is nothing that is impoossible with us if we believe in whatever we do...
Mahil
2006-07-04 21:48:41 · answer #5 · answered by Mahil 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its fine to be nervous everyone is once you do it the first time your nerves should calm down a bit. good luck
2006-07-04 21:47:34 · answer #6 · answered by dani_d86 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo it's not
2006-07-04 22:14:38 · answer #7 · answered by chrislena h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋