she has a baby and is financially strapped. but the girl is such a slob that she is hard to deal with. she throws fits like a kid
2006-07-04 14:35:08 · 6 answers · asked by lodeemae 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
if she has always been a slob, before she was a mum, then the only way to react when she is throwing a tantrum is to walk away. you can't talk to her as an adult if she is behaving like a child. maybe you can send her to her room and tell her to clean it. :) she has to learn to clean up after herself especially with a child. maybe it was always done for her.
2006-07-04 14:41:29 · answer #1 · answered by gonetotallymad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess you can partly blame the parents for the way she has been brought up, but at 22, there is no real excuse for being a slob, and laziness. I don't think there is much you can do, but tell her. Maybe she needs some soft of motivation??? A leopard won't change its spots....
Trent
2006-07-04 21:37:55 · answer #2 · answered by City C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this your girlfriend? Find a new one. Being broke doesn't make you into a slob. Sounds like she has some growing up to do, and she'll be teaching her child to behave the same way.
2006-07-04 21:38:15 · answer #3 · answered by Therealmsred 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sive her 2 choices: fix herself up or get out
2006-07-04 21:40:15 · answer #4 · answered by Chelly P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put her behind out----or just leave the mess that she leaves..she will get tired of smelling dirty diapers and looking at a dirty home...
2006-07-04 21:38:18 · answer #5 · answered by destine4_69 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave her be, and when she is starving she will begin to understand
2006-07-04 22:59:18 · answer #6 · answered by Max Power 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋