2006-07-04 14:33:57 · 30 answers · asked by centangel 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
the first time is a huge let down. The more your with someone the better it gets because you know what they like. When your with them for a few years you know really well what they enjoy and you can make it long or short.
2006-07-04 14:36:49 · answer #1 · answered by researchtissue 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Feeling Curious
You might have a lot of new sexual feelings or thoughts. These feelings and thoughts are totally normal — it means that all of your hormones are working properly. But sometimes your curiosity or sexual feelings can make you feel like it's the right time to have sex, even though it may not be.
Though your body may have the ability to have sex and you may really want to satisfy your curiosity, it doesn't mean your mind is ready. Although some teens understand how sex can affect them emotionally, many don't — and this can lead to confusion and deeply hurt feelings later.
But at the same time, don't beat yourself up or be too hard on yourself if you do have sex and then wish you hadn't. Having sexual feelings is normal and handling them can sometimes seem difficult, even if you planned otherwise. Just because you had sex once doesn't mean you have to continue or say yes later on, no matter what anyone tells you. Making mistakes is not only human, it's a major part of being a teen — and you can learn from mistakes.
Why Some Teens Wait
Some teens are waiting longer to have sex — they are thinking more carefully about what it means to lose their virginity and begin a sexual relationship.
For these teens, there are many reasons for abstinence (not having sex). Some don't want to worry about unplanned pregnancy and all its consequences. Others see abstinence as a way to protect themselves completely from STDs. Some STDs (like AIDS) can literally make sex a life-or-death situation, and many teens take this very seriously.
Some teens don't have sex because their religion prohibits it or because they simply have a very strong belief system of their own. Other teens may recognize that they aren't ready emotionally and they want to wait until they're absolutely sure they can handle it.
When it comes to sex, there are two very important things to remember: one, that you are ultimately the person in charge of your own happiness and your own body; and two, you have a lot of time to wait until you're totally sure about it. If you decide to put off sex, it's OK — no matter what anyone says. Being a virgin is one of the things that proves you are in charge, and it shows that you are powerful enough to make your own decisions about your mind and body.
If you find yourself feeling confused about decisions related to sex, you may be able to talk to an adult (like a parent, doctor, older sibling, aunt, or uncle) for advice. Keep in mind, though, that everyone's opinion about sex is different. Even though another person may be able to share useful advice, in the end, the decision is up to you.
2006-07-04 21:39:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how you feel on it. If you are not interested in it at all, you can't feel nothing. It is a good thing either you understand what the sex is or not. Because if you understand, you will feel extremely good. On the one hand, you don't need to worry about how to find your partner when you want.
If you really want to know about sex seriously, you could always find out more on the internet. You will see all about sex (sex,sex,sex etc...sex).
2006-07-04 21:49:30 · answer #3 · answered by mypetispig83 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ever see a jackhammer used to break up concrete? That's the technique most men use and it really sucks being the woman in that case. Hope you're better at it when you're old enough to have it.
2006-07-04 21:37:27 · answer #4 · answered by matchcom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nice if you are with some one you care about, but for a girl I have to say the first few time are really crap. Make sure you are ready for your first sexual experience, and not getting pushed into it because you could regret it for the rest of your life.
2006-07-04 21:36:22 · answer #5 · answered by Day 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lets start from the beginning:
What DOES sex feel like?
Answer: the best feeling in the world..............
2006-07-04 21:37:19 · answer #6 · answered by statenislanddreamer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its so cool i cant express it in words, but i recommanded you to do sex then u will know more about sex... but u will never able to express it in a words
2006-07-04 21:35:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i take it that you are a virgin. the first couple of times may be a little uncomfortable and may even hurt a little. but after the first couple of times then it feels good and gets better and better
2006-07-04 21:37:38 · answer #8 · answered by christina C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Waaaaaay overatted.
2006-07-04 21:37:06 · answer #9 · answered by D J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
an incredibly, warm, fuzzy, tickly, nice feeling all over your body especialy the parts that are in each other.
2006-07-04 21:38:02 · answer #10 · answered by up4itxxx69? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋