why do you see more black men with white women than you see white men wirh black women?

Answer 1

I think it's more socially acceptable for a black man to be with a white woman even though interracial relationships are still somewhat frowned upon. As long as people are happy why should anyone care.

Answer 2

Just guessing here but men are more physical minded and driven and therefore at times are more superficial than women who know that emotions and mental aspects of a relationship is just as important. Men therefore can be uncomfortable with differences and often worry more about what others might think and their bias is therefore more revealed.

I agree that there are several very beautiful black women, Asian women and women of all races and nationalities. I am white and would have no problem dating a black women at all. I've met many black women whose personality also is as lovely as they are.

It also could be that men are more biased than women, as a factor of their makeup and therefore put a mental barrier in their mind that the will not even consider the beauty in another race or people other than their own. Just some ideas and thoughts but you are right, at least for most of the places I have lived or visited.

Answer 3

I don't know whatt some of these people are talking about but coming from someone wha has dated all spectrum's of the rainbow, it has to do with how someone treats you regardless of the color. If you go out looking for "white women then you may have problems" but if you just happen to find it then what's the big deal? the media sensationalizes interracial relationships and people who are either jealous(because they don't have a man or messed up their relationship) are prejudiced, or just stupid just eat it up. Why? worry about who you are with and who is making you happy. From 1st hand experience SOME (a small percentage not all)black women have a bad habit of putting a black man down when he is already down. But that happens in all races too. Some black men have gotten tired of it and have sworn off black women all together and that's wrong in itself.

Answer 4

Because a black man will take a white woman because she will be more submissive than a black woman on the other hand it is my opinion that white men may be some what intimidated by black women.

Answer 5

Well I am a black woman who only date white men and I think it's because black women are raised to not go outside their race(that's how my fam raised me). When a black women dates a white man she is then considered in the black community a slut or a whore. My family hates the fact that my bf is white. We are suppose to sit around a wait for a "strong black man" to be interested in us. I think it's bull I say date whomever you wish. And that is exactly what I do. I'm a lot like time, I wait for no one. I'm too cute for that bs.

Answer 6

I don't know how true this is, but I have read it , it's not a racial slur either. but what I have heard is that if there is a difference of 30 points or more in IQ level, people can't communicate and most African American males have about the same IQ as white females where their white male counterparts have a much higher IQ average. and if you look around, the African American females that end up with white partners on the average have a much higher IQ than the average African American male. so it may appear to be a communications thing. I didn't make this up but read it somewheres.

Answer 7

I see more white women with black men, than black women with white men.
Honestly, where Im from, black men think that white women are more submissive that black women.
Most black women would not deal with a white man because they say he has a small pecker...

Answer 8

Who cares??? If they are in love - skin color doesn't really matter. And I take offense to whoever said the comment about white women are submissive to black men and that's why they date them :( You can't categorize all white women. What a racist thing to say!

Answer 9

OK, I got to the reason from a guy I worked with named Bo . Now Bo was the neatest guy and we had alot of fun at the placed where we worked. I think it was right after thr O.J. trial. We were just talking and he asked ,me do you want to know why you see more black guys with white girls than the other way around ? I said sure . This is what he told me.... Now this is what a black told me. He said white girls put with more crap out of their guys than black women do. He said he had no problem with getting them to give him money from them that they just took better care of him . Now one one get made at me I am just telling you what I was told.

Answer 10

Because white men have better taste. I bet it has to do with the fact that white women don't know how to say no.