I like a guy named Cristian Lopez i want him to like me but im not sure if he does!!! plz HELP!! idk what to do
2006-07-04 13:34:00 · 19 answers · asked by MrS.CenA 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
if your handle means you're married and you want to have a "more intimate" relationship with him (and it's ok with your hubby) -- ask him if he swings
about it being ok with your hubby: that's just cuz i think cheating is wrong
if you don't know how to bring it up with your hubby or think he wouldn't go for it, it's gonna be kinda tough -- but you can help soften the blow if you know women that might appeal to his taste who are willing to try to seduce him.
let that go on for at least a few weeks, then ask one day of he would be willing to renegotiate the terms of your marriage contract (or "agreement" or whatever you are comfortable calling the agreement represented by your vows, etc.)
if he's like "wtf?" just say you noticed other women were interested in making it with him, and you thought about it, and if he wants to, its okay with you if the same rules apply to you -- but you would like to talk first about how you're gonna go about it
it is very important that you include the "i want us to talk about this" part -- and don't back down: if the guy is even remotely religious, he will usually assume that you're testing his fidelity, which means that he's gonna switch off his brain and give you pat, pre-programmed answers to your questions.
if it isn't going anywhere, change the focus by asking him if it would be okay of you experimented outside the marriage; if he says no, ask why not -- but don't be contentious about it. just keep it up until you're sure you're getting the answers he really believes, instead of the answers he thinks you or "society" wants to hear.
in the end, he may not be open to it -- and that's when you have to either know that your hubby will forgive you if you cheat on him, or decide who you want more.
of course, you might get his okay and try out "Mr. Lopez" only to discover you really don't like swinging and want to be with just your hubby -- but your hubby might discover he really likes swinging and doesn't want to give it up.
it's a lot easier to keep the genie in the bottle than it is to try to put the genie back in the bottle after it is out.
2006-07-04 15:03:10 · answer #1 · answered by wireflight 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Andy is right, the first thing you must do is tell him that you like him. Boys are not mind-readers, and they need to be told straight-out what you are thinking. Do not resort to mindgames. When you are alone with him one day, say something like "I like you Christian... I just wanted you to know that." He might say that he likes you too, but if he doesnt, try not to get mad or sad around him. Just say "ok" and leave it at that. There are lots of guys out there!! Don't worry if one gets away, because you will find another. If he DOES like you, then be happy! :)
2006-07-04 13:46:44 · answer #2 · answered by myksha2001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a sign how the guy loves a girl :
1. he will call you, maybe he isn't if you don't call him first because he's so shy, but if you call him first, he'll call you later
2. He'll try to speak to you even though with a clumsy word
3. He'll ask you to date if you close enough to him
4. He'll ask you a silly question again and again "have you eat??"
5. If you like him, to get his attention try to care him by asking a silly question like above, or try to get contact with him everyday, believe this fact : one man and one woman will be in love if they live in one house or get contact everyday even though they wasn't at first
2006-07-05 06:47:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A good way to tell if a guy likes you is by the gestures that he makes with his body. If he is really touchy with you when you guys talk then yes, he likes you. Another good way to tell is by the eye contact that he makes. Some guys may give you that look like MAN I WANT YOU NOW!!!! Good luck! :)
2006-07-04 13:51:45 · answer #4 · answered by anje_s2001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just gfo up and say "Hey umm..I was wondering if u thought maybe that I was kinda cute cause I think ur kinda cute!" It's what I always do but one time I went up to a boi and said rel fast ' Will u go out with me?" And he wa slike no!!! So don't ever talk rel fast like that!!!!!!!!
2006-07-14 15:48:41 · answer #5 · answered by cutie_girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him or tell him you like him it's the only way to find out. I lost my soulmate and the love of my life because i felt ashamed I stilled liked him after thre and a half years and so i would'nt dance with him so I lost him. If you really like this guy you won't let that happen.
2006-07-04 13:39:21 · answer #6 · answered by Lexsy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to find out if someone likes you is to, ask them. They are the best person to give you your answer.
2006-07-11 08:52:38 · answer #7 · answered by Shelly53 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he stares at you like there is not anyone else in the whole world to stare at.. i think if you think this guy likes you yu should ask him.. write him a note. do something before its too late.. good luck.. mackenzie
2006-07-10 17:48:11 · answer #8 · answered by Brittany 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont think its a good idea to put his name on yahoo. Good Luck.
2006-07-18 04:56:48 · answer #9 · answered by Jan G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if at first he was hesitant to talk to you and is very friendly and hangs around you more than he does his boy then you know for sure that he likes you
2006-07-04 16:05:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋