I'm concerned, but I don't wanna get them in jail.
2006-07-04 12:57:13 · 7 answers · asked by suzi q 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Get them help as soon as you can. I know you say you don't want to land them in jail, there are many things you can do without that happening.
First thing I would talk to your friends. Everyone has experimented in some way whether it's with science, music, drugs, sex, etc at one time or another, but you need to stress to them that this is not the way to express themselves. Maybe print out some statistics on drug use and how cocaine can easily lead to death. Tell them that you're not judging them, you're just concerned for them and don't want anything bad to happen to them, because they are your friends and you don't know what you'd do without them.
I'm not sure how old you are but if you're still in school, there is always school counsellors, teachers, and other people around your school willing to help. Go to the office and ask to speak to the counsellor. Generally they're required to keep the conversation confidential- if you're worried about that, don't mention any names just ask them for some resources on where your friends would be able to get help. Most towns have drug or alcohol abuse programs and people to talk to, even if it's just a help line.
Ask your parents. Don't mention which of your friends are participating, and make sure you stress to them that you're not involved in cocaine, but ask them what they think you should do. Chances are they'll do anything they can to help.
I hope this helps a little bit.
2006-07-04 13:05:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you do not aspect out what variety of drugs, i guess you propose hashish, Ecstasy etc. i'm afraid this is her age and shes likely desirous to be cool and fit in including her friends. All you may do is be a chum to her, do not alienate her enable her comprehend you want her and that you will be there for her. She's likely purely experimenting - yet i guess this is the position each individual starts. a minimum of you all comprehend what she is doing - some households do not locate out til this is too previous due. Get as a lot drug and alcohol literature as you could and make her study them. your spouse and youngsters might want to attempt to nip it contained in the bud earlier it does get out of hand. keep in recommendations we were all childrens once and typically peer pressure does make you do belongings you'll not frequently do - purely keep a watch on her and stay good do not push her out - she desires you.
2016-11-30 07:16:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to turn them in to the police perhaps the best start if they are truly your friends is with their families. Talk to your friend and explain the stupidity of what they are doing and how it will hurt them in the future. If they wont listen to reason than try their families. If that fails you may have to cut your ties if you do not want to be dragged down by their stupidity.
2006-07-04 13:19:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run! Do not get involved. Do not say "I will try it just this once"
They would be getting themselves in jail. They are making poor choices. Better to be caught early before they get addicted to more stuff. Getting caught will get them help they will need to get off of it.
2006-07-04 13:11:25 · answer #4 · answered by mar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let them live their life, I've had the same problem and there really is no solution, they will not stop just because you ask them to. Just try to keep YOUR nose clean and hopefuly they'll get over that curiousity period
2006-07-04 13:05:52 · answer #5 · answered by DKAY 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
explain to them that you care about them and dont want them to get hurt, do some research on the effects of the drug (effects to your health).... talk to them about it and go from there...
2006-07-04 13:06:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find new friends , and fast
2006-07-04 13:42:45 · answer #7 · answered by BONE° 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋