i have been apart from my first love for 1 year i broke up with him. and i regreted it terribly to the point where i use to cry daily. i asked him to take me back and he said he ould but after he broke up with his new girfriend that was a year ago this in july. when he comes in town it seems that we are insperable we enjoy each other company and yes we do get intimate. ( he did not have a girlfriend the times we did that) i want to know am i stupid for still loving him or not?
2006-07-04 12:52:13 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
No you're not stupid, but does he really want to be in a relationship with you or his just having a little fun? 1st loves are always the hardest to get over, try not to put your heart on your sleeve, keep it tucked in a little.
2006-07-04 12:57:11 · answer #1 · answered by shawnthavirgo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your not stupid when u love someone its hard to do the right thing. If he hasn't verbally (not Physically) told u that he wants to be yo man throw him the dueces and move on u may cry but when Mr. Right comes and sweeps u off yo feet u won't regret it.
2006-07-04 19:57:32 · answer #2 · answered by Princess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think "STUPID" is not the correct word.
I do think you are like a lot of people who don't know what you have until it's gone....
He was perfectly free to love another... when you cut him loose... and he did.
I'd hang in for a while, and if he doesn't return... move on.
2006-07-04 19:58:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. you're not stupid for loving him. but however, he isn't worth your time. if he likes you more than his other girlfriend, then he would break up with her and take you back. tell him that he needs to make up his mind... and figure out who he likes more.
*i hope this helped some!
2006-07-04 20:22:44 · answer #4 · answered by country girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
baby girl all of us women are stupid for loving the men we love. but it's the way the heart is.
2006-07-04 19:58:21 · answer #5 · answered by tapthisphatazz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go ahead love him and try to slip a 3som in there some where
2006-07-04 19:57:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I DONT THINK THAT YOU ARE STUPID, I'M SURE YOU STILL HAVE FEELINGS FOR HIM, BUT IF THIS GUY WONT MAKE A COMMITMENT, DONT WASTE YOUR TIME, YOU ARE BETTER THAN THAT. FIND SOMEONE THAT WANT'S TO SEE YOU EVERYDAY!!!!
2006-07-04 20:45:33 · answer #7 · answered by islandwavehunter@sbcglobal.net 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is
2006-07-04 19:59:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
this is payback time.
2006-07-04 20:15:16 · answer #9 · answered by firewall 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋