I'm not sure if what I am experiencing is a real orgasm. I get this sensation which feels really good down there but only lasts about 10 seconds. I don't feel anything in the rest of my body. I don't think that I actually "come" at all. I get this sensation when my boyfriend gives me oral sex or when I am masturbating. If you don't think that this is a real orgasm please give me any tips you have for acheiving a true orgasm.
2006-07-04 12:50:51 · 10 answers · asked by Alex 2 in Health ➔ Women's Health
To make a girl orgasm, finger the G spot furiously (or use a G spot toy), masturbate the clit fast at the same time (like rub a powerful vibrator body massager on your clit at the same time). Maybe have an object in her a-nus (a turn on by women). You have to be horn*y in order for the orgasm to work, so you may want to incorporate goat weed or any good aphrodisiac (a sexual libido enhancer, NOT Viagra or "size pills") . The G-spot is on the top inside of the vagina. Curve your fingers up when fing*ring. For a libido enhancer, try http://www.directvideoanddvd.com/listcategory_toys.asp. Maybe pop in a porno. Girls love when you rub the inside of her thigh(s) while you do this. [for the guys to do]
2006-07-05 00:07:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Dont worry about anything. Unlike the male orgasm (I hope Im right or it may just be me) Female orgasms arent quite as explosive or dramatic as male ones. Also, it is definately more diffucult to know when a female has "come" because it is a series of waves of pleasure, not neccessarily one big burst of fluid. You'd have to be pretty lucky to have an orgasm that lasts more than 15 seconds, as I said, the build up is what the female orgasm is about. Orgasms are different for every girl but usually it is said that you feel intense tingling starting on the inside of your thighs and then up to your hips. It may feel like a warmth spreadin over your body. There are different levels of orgasm, but just remember that it comes in waves. So just enjoy it.
2006-07-04 19:59:04 · answer #2 · answered by dont*shout 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you have a real orgasm, you'll know!!!! it's a tingly sensation throughout your whole body, and you want it to last forever....you'll be able to feel your cervix pulsating, and you won't be able to move for a few minutes, just enjoy the feeling your having, and be patient...as long as he's "going down" you'll get it eventually -- stop trying so hard, let it "COME...."
2006-07-04 19:55:47 · answer #3 · answered by kimberly k 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll know. You should feel your whole body tense up. You have a hard twitch through your pelvic area.
2006-07-04 19:56:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll know when you have one. Sounds like you are getting close though. Have you tried flying solo to have one? Sometimes that works better.
2006-07-04 19:54:07 · answer #5 · answered by RIVER 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are hitting the mark.
2006-07-04 19:53:53 · answer #6 · answered by dcbowls 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your getting there when your uterus contracts when you get those good feelings your having a orgasm.
2006-07-04 20:24:15 · answer #7 · answered by lizardlover42000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
add a vibe something powerful and it will come faster and stronger
2006-07-04 19:54:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will get more intense in time.
2006-07-04 19:55:24 · answer #9 · answered by Milu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm yah that is real...
2006-07-04 19:56:39 · answer #10 · answered by BurtonGirl013 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋