-Weve been together for around 9/10 months.
He's recently been telling me that he needs space because he needs to have time to himself somedays, which is fair.
We generally seem happy in eachother's company.Well, I definitely do.-Recently he sometimes seems a little distant,but he tells me it's just because he's tired,or that he doesn't mean to appear that way.
Last Saturday we were planning on seeing eachother, but in the late afternoon, I called him, after not receiving a call from him I called-he told me that he'd been out with his family,and was going out with them again, and so couldn't see me.Which was a hint he needed space.Today I found a bus ticket dated from last Saturday,which was suspicious as he wouldn't have needed a bus that day.When I asked him about it,he first lied and said it was his friends,then when I could clearly see he was lying he said, "Oh I went to get my brother a video game-Iwas scared you'd laugh cause I like to play video games". He avoided it after that.
2006-07-04 12:49:42 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
we all need some space sometimes.i don't think he is up to anything.
2006-07-04 12:53:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 7⤊ 7⤋
Okay, some guys need some space to think about were the relationship might be headed. All men go through this phaze. The two of you have been together for a long time and I think that he might be scared of how serious the relationship might be getting. Try not to corner him with questions. My advice is, don't call him for about two weeks. Let his mind and heart figure out what he wants. He will let you know in the end. Don't stress out too much because this might cause him to be more stressed. Just give him some time and space to figure out what he wants. Men are just like that.
2006-07-04 12:57:37 · answer #2 · answered by Allison N 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may be feeling alittle crammed up for alone time. Guys value that. However it is possible that he is doing something foolish. If you have the doubt, look into it. Play a little detective game. One of the times he tells you where he is, go there and make sure he really is there. The sure way to find out is to get a phone bill- look for numbers taht appear frequently, at odd times of the day or night. Once you have them, go to any web-site of phone search, reverse look up, type in the number. I t will give you name and an address. Any girl names, ask him about. Do not tell him how you got them. If he starts to squirm, look away, and gets deffensive -drop him. Body language can tell a lot. When you ask a question, look at his eyes. A person who is telling the truth, normally looks to their RIGHT to recall, a liar looks away to their LEFT to make up an answer.
2006-07-04 13:03:39 · answer #3 · answered by lidia s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand that everyone needs space and its good to be you on your own or with friends, but without sounding awful and i dont mean to upset you but it looks like he might be trying to call it a day. Sit down with him and ask him does he want to continue seeing each other and tell him to be truefull. If he does say he wants to split ask is there any reson why. im sorry if it doesnt work out but you have only been together about 10 months which is a long time but you then have to think that if you didnt ask he may have cheated and began to traet you unfairly if it carried on any longer. good luck.xxxxxx
2006-07-04 13:28:08 · answer #4 · answered by fairylandk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its possible he has feelings for another person but at the same time he still wants to be with you. Hes not sure what to do and needs time to think so give him space and in the end he will make the right decision. I know from experience
2006-07-04 15:39:18 · answer #5 · answered by clueless young fella 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds a little like a cover up story but you never know... Start by telling him you are concerned over his cover up story, tell him you want him and you to be honest and straight with each other in your relationship, no lies, no cover stories, tell him you and he both deserve to have the truth, you can not build a relationship on lies, Ask him to be straight with you ..Is he getting fed up with your relationship or does he really just need some space...Tell him you dont like feeling suspicious but he needs to be truthfull with you..
2006-07-04 12:58:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm. It sounds like his feelings for you might not be as strong as it used to be. I am a firm optimist, I think you two need to talk.Find out if he still has strong feelings for you, or he'll tell you otherwise if that's not the case. Note this does not nulify the case that he might have been unfaithful, just that I don't want to arrive at that conclusion. Either way, I wish you the best of luck and hope it works out for you guys.
2006-07-04 13:20:28 · answer #7 · answered by obiora c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like this relationship is coming to the end of its term. But you need to sit him down and put all of this to him, and give him an opportunity to explain it. Its not fair to you to be left trying to guess what he is thinking or what his next move will be. His behaviour now changes things, but be prepared to let him go, and move on, just in case.
2006-07-04 12:54:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had asked a question earlier when someone avoids answering a question is it a yes or no and majority said it means a yes so i guess thats the answer
2006-07-04 12:53:32 · answer #9 · answered by zthestoryofus 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when a partner says they need space, its often the begining of the end im afraid.
2006-07-04 14:58:16 · answer #10 · answered by crophilia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not cheating, sounds too stupid...
Dump him, he doesn't respect you... Find someone who can be honest and less deceiptful
2006-07-04 13:23:14 · answer #11 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋