i havent seen my best friend/ex in 2 weeks im going crazy i feel like i cant breathe im really sad and can';tt hink of anything but him andi hate it im so miserable im afraid i will loose his friendship constantly i know hes seeing aother girl who hates me im scared our friendship may be over and im going bonkers im afraid i may be stalking b/c i call him aobut 4-5 times a week and im constantly asking him to hang out and i feel like crap because he never wants to i cant get him out of my head im afraid i will never see him again i leave for college in august please help i constantly have anxiety attacks what can i do i feel like i have some kind of addiction and its making me crazy
2006-07-04 12:37:44 · 9 answers · asked by bobbo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
you need to take a deep breath and calm down. its probably best that you are leaving for school in auguest. your obviously still in love with him and thats why you havent moved on yet. if he doesnt feel the same way about you then its best you move on and stop all comunication with him for a while. you think of him as your best friend because your still in love with him. he really probably isnt your best friend.
2006-07-04 12:42:56 · answer #1 · answered by Kittie_Nash 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all i can say that yes he may be a good friend.
but sometimes you have to let things go..
his friendship or talking and wanting to hang out with him is affecting you.. you cant sleep, you cant think right or you wonder what or where he is at.......kind of like when you were going out.
so my advice is.. if it is affecting you that bad, try and let go of him... dont call him, dont take his calls, or well if he wants to chat with you thats cool, take his calls.
try and put pictures away any memories that will make you think of him away.. then you will find yourself not thinking of him
dont stalk, or obsess over anyone...kinda scary to the other person and it will make you look bad and feel crazy
2006-07-04 12:47:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHOAA YEAH IF HE ISN'T RESPONDING HE IS PROBABLY TELLING EVERYONE YOU ARE STALKING HIM, LEAVE FOR COLLEGE FIND SOMEONE NEW OR HE'LL PUT A RESTRAINING ORDER OUT ON YOU. IT HURTS FOR A WHILE BUT IF IT IS MEANT TO BE HE'LL BE THE ONE CALLING YOU. GO TO THE CLUB AND DON'T WORRY ABOUT HIM. LIFE IS TOO SHORT FOR THAT.
2006-07-04 12:43:57 · answer #3 · answered by kris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have the same problem 2. except im still in 11th grade and he just broke up with me and that was the 2nd time we dated. i love him so much and he wants to be friends but he cheated on me. sry i wish i could help u.
2006-07-04 12:53:36 · answer #4 · answered by tupacamarushakur7196 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it takes time try dating lines to get your mind off of him keep busy and you will forget about him i promise or find a replacement friend
2006-07-04 12:43:07 · answer #5 · answered by Lewis S 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just relax..just keep urself busy, hang out with family, friends, other boys..think about the damage you are doing to urself with these anxiety attacks, think about urself first AND REMEMBER JUST KEEP OCCUPIED!!!!!!!
2006-07-04 12:42:58 · answer #6 · answered by JennyJenJen_uno.dos.tres. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are not aware of this..but youa re in love with guy..there are two wyas..find a new frend..or find the way to make a relationship with the guy...
2006-07-04 12:43:44 · answer #7 · answered by oliwia1000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u need some help by talking to him or your parents or pastor if u have one
2006-07-04 12:43:35 · answer #8 · answered by adelaide 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
X.....A......N.....A....X !!!!
2006-07-04 12:41:34 · answer #9 · answered by ITS ME!! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋