2006-07-04 12:35:22 · 18 answers · asked by Inder 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
what was the scenerio, why is she angry with you ?
2006-07-04 12:37:44 · answer #1 · answered by vada1977 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am hoping that its not a regular thing that you make her angry because then it will take you changing to make her happy. If thats not the case a simple thoughtful gesture would do the trick. Example 1... I wake up in the morning only to turn around and see that my boyfriend is missing but in his place is a single vibrant and colorful flower with a note that say simply, "I am sorry." Example 2...I walk out to my car to find a single flower held up on my windshield with a note under the windshield wiper that says something thoughtful. As cheesy as these two examples sound (like its out of a movie), they mean a great deal because it took effort and thought to get it done. It shows that you care. My ex boyfriend, when I was sick and bound in bed all day with the flu, took a bus and walk across the city and out of his way during his break to bring me medicine and make me tea. The next day I got well and was able to get out and take care of some obligations. When I got back to my apt I found a single bright orange flower on my living room table with a note. I felt like the luckiest girl in the world.
2006-07-04 20:03:44 · answer #2 · answered by Mirjana 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Romance her. Send some of her favourite flowers and a poem or a loveletter. Take her out for a nice meal. Give her massages and cuddle during movies. Put absolutely no pressure on her to have sex till she is ready. Let her initiate it. When she is ready to accept an apology, she will. If she needs some cooling-off time, then give it to her. Do not call ten times a day and harass about anything. Keep your cool. Listen to her, take notes and learn from your mistakes.
2006-07-04 19:38:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The answer is actually a series of steps:
1. Ask her what's wrong. (Be unbiased, and LISTEN to her side.)
2. Acknowledge the problem. (Don't make EXCUSES.)
3. Ask her how to RESOLVE the matter instead of ignoring it.
4. If she cannot complete the 3rd step, OFFER suggestions.
All couples argue. The ones that last are those who confront their problems in a non-hostile way. They respect each other, listen to each other, communicate with each other, and are receptive towards one another's feelings. Learn from the little things to make the big picture even better.
2006-07-04 19:42:31 · answer #4 · answered by sportyblush 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't know why she's mad at you find out and fix the problem if possible. If not give her room and time to cool off. If you try and make it up by buying her something of by doing something special for her it may work or she may come to expect it everytime she gets mad at you or in a worst case scenario she may take the gift as tring to buy her off and she may get even more angry at you.
2006-07-04 19:42:37 · answer #5 · answered by hjbergel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should sit face to face with her and ask her to tell you how she is feeling and try to really listen, make good eye contact, give some assuring nods and hums, dont interrupt then repeat back what she expressed and kiss and make up. Then run her a hot bath with her fave music and a beverage of her choice with a good book.
2006-07-04 19:44:58 · answer #6 · answered by karmaevolves 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls always fall for romantic stuff so write a poem about her and how wonderful she is sand give it to her or send it in the mail. If you are good at singing write her a song and sing it to her or take her to her favorite restaurant or something and give her flowers and chocolate.
2006-07-04 19:40:12 · answer #7 · answered by ChelseyChiller 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take her shopping at the mall. Let her buy $50-$100 worth of stuff.
You pay. That should cheer her up!
2006-07-04 19:38:45 · answer #8 · answered by Molly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't make a person happy. Only they can decide to be happy. Quit trying, it's wasted effort.
2006-07-04 19:38:54 · answer #9 · answered by Firefighter EMT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her treats and correct what your mistake was or is. Also try to rekindle the flame from your first date and make her feel special.
2006-07-04 19:38:41 · answer #10 · answered by Peache264 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you are sorry first. Tell her you are wrong. Even if you weren't. Tell her it will never happen again. Buy her something romantic and ask her to forgive you. Put out your bottom lip and say please. You will look so cute she can't say no. I fall for it every time.
2006-07-04 19:38:50 · answer #11 · answered by noseygirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋