i didn't have sex, and I'm not planning on it anytime soon- I'm way too young.
But I have had semen come in to contact with my vulva and vagina, so there is actualy a possibility of me being pregnant...
I'm very worried and I don't know what to do... how do I explain that to anyone? "We didn't have sex, he just touched me with his penis" ??? No one would beleive me... Of course that would be the least of my problems...
Anybody have any advice?
2006-07-04 11:57:53 · 53 answers · asked by Shampoo 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
You didn't have sex but a penis was close enough to put seman onto your vagina/vuvlva? You are once "thrust" away full blown intercourse, placing your trust in a hormone driven boy. Pretty stupid. Quit whining and keep your damn clothes on until you are ready to accept the responsibility.
2006-07-04 12:08:24 · answer #1 · answered by xtowgrunt 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Ok.. you gotta start living in reality.. that is sex... so now that we are living in reality... when you really have sex... and a penis with semen was really next to or touching your vagina... the can really get pregnant. You can also catch diseases that way too. I don't know how old you are.. but you can go see the Dr, and the Dr has to keep it confidential. At least if they give you a blood test.. then you know for sure and can make very important decisions that will affect the rest of your life then. If you are not pregnant... consider yourself lucky tis time. If you are going to continue having sex.. make sure you get on the pill and use a condom. Being pregnant is not fun... and having a screaming kid attached to you is certainly not fun. I should know... the one next to me has not stopped crying for 3 days..... Good Luck
2006-07-15 20:42:36 · answer #2 · answered by Brooklyn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i went through the exact same thing when i was younger.... isn't it scary??!? you're right, you ARE still a virgin if there was no penetration, but semen can swim a long way!!! even though you could have gotten pregnant, it is NOT very likely. the best thing you can do is wait it out and then take a pregnancy test. next piece of advice -- if you're going to be messing around with semen ANYWHERE NEAR there in the future, go ahead and get on the pill or use condoms or something... this kind of stress isn't something you want to experience every month!!!!
2006-07-15 05:22:26 · answer #3 · answered by Janci 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't have intercourse, but make no doubt, you did have sex. And yes, you can become pregnant if semen comes in contact with your vagina. If you don't want to worry about becoming pregnant, don't expose yourself to a man and let him ejaculate on you.
I don't know how young you are but you almost sound like you were molested. I hope this isn't the case. If it is you need to tell someone. If this is consentual, you need to stop before you regret it.
2006-07-04 13:24:27 · answer #4 · answered by shanesmommy01 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If semen has come in contact with those parts it sounds to me like you're having sex or coming WAY too close to it! If you are TOO YOUNG to have sex, you are TOO YOUNG to be having a penis touch you. Unless you want a baby I'd stop your crap right now.
2006-07-15 09:52:23 · answer #5 · answered by Sadie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didn't have sex and I got pregnant... It was his first time and he precame on very inner thigh and i tried to wipe it down but sperm seek warm wet inviorments and they do swim, even if it gets on the labia they will find their way in... My son it two now and it is very possible I was a virgin and technically I was until my son was 6 months old. Very possible i believe you... No one believed me either but you will know the truth deep down. I am sure parents will believe you. Listen look in any sex ed book and it says it there too. I am sorry that you will have to go through that.
2006-07-18 08:00:48 · answer #6 · answered by Mademoiselle 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can and will get pregnant that way. If you are young like you say you are STOP being stupid. Don't let a dick get that close to you. I am sugesting to get to your doctor right away, and find out if you are or not. If you have to get the feeling buy a viberator. It won't get you pregnant. Leave the hormone riddin' little boy out of the picture, KEEP YOUR CLOTHES ON. You don't need that stress. Children are hard to raise with and education. I think it would be even harder with out one.
2006-07-13 05:37:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are right, it would take the sperm way to much to go all the way in there. The vagina is, believe it or not, highly acidic and cannot cantain the sperm without killing it. It would have to be deep inside and swim quite a bit before it even has a chance of making it into your goodies alive.
2006-07-04 12:14:17 · answer #8 · answered by ddiscostu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I actually know a couple that happened to. They were strict Mormons and both virgins, but that is how she ended up pregnant. Go get a First Response test or better yet a blood test will show the fastest.
2006-07-16 01:50:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually, there have been numerous accounts of women becoming pregnant without actual sex.
Some rapist would inject their semen into women with syringes.
Many have conceived based on the very concept you just stated. It's very unlikely you'd get pregnant, but there is always a chance.
2006-07-04 12:02:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋