am supposed to go on vacation to cape cod
with five other guys
i know one of them very well...
( we never dated but he wanted to a year ago, i wasn't interested- now we're just friends but it is possible he has feelings for me still)..and i have a crush on one of the guys
who's coming with us..the two of them are good friends.
should i just back out and not go?
we're all going to be sleeping in the same room together..it could be messy...? help.
2006-07-04 11:39:31 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Way, way, way too messy.
I don't see how this could POSSIBLY turn out good.
I can pretty much guarantee SOMEONE is going to get upset, and there may not be ANYONE who will be happy by this arrangement - except for perhaps you.
I'd skip it & try to catch up with the dude you like, sometime later.
2006-07-04 13:58:06 · answer #1 · answered by John C 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i may not be a guy but i have been in that predicament time and time again. you really have to think about if you want to give up time with the person you like because their friend still likes you, i usually choose no and go through with my plans and the only time it ever blew up was when i did it the wrong way, meaning be nice about it and try not to do any full blown flirting in front of him etc.
2006-07-04 18:46:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think its gonna cause trouble..just dont sleep with em haha
I doubt the one who used 2 be into and still might is gonna cause trouble for no reason..If he finds out you like the other guy and the other guys likes you back and you two start like hookin up he MIGHT be a little pissed off but I doubt he would start **** there and then..it wouldnt be beneficial too him.
2006-07-04 18:45:09 · answer #3 · answered by tampabay5400 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
even though he might be over u... he will not like the idea that u would go out with his close friend its a ego thing
me personally wouldnt like to go there all by my self
2006-07-04 18:51:11 · answer #4 · answered by ka55y 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, that sounds messy, especially if you're the only girl.
2006-07-04 18:45:53 · answer #5 · answered by musiclover 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like a personal problem to me, but if you're the only girl you should definately not go
2006-07-04 18:43:36 · answer #6 · answered by Jeff 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not go with them, its going to cause to much of a chaos
2006-07-04 18:42:09 · answer #7 · answered by Male Sicilian Trauma Nurse 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you the only girl going? I'm hearing gang-bang bells going off.
take care.
2006-07-04 18:44:02 · answer #8 · answered by Gabrielle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should take along some adults and more girls!
2006-07-04 18:46:27 · answer #9 · answered by lifesucks244 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋