Sometimes they will even be young!! Why wouldn't they be happy with just straight sex, although variety is good, why would they need porno, and weird sex toys? Just sounds like drugs to me, or someone who has been around WAAAY too much.
2006-07-04 11:34:18 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Your question deals with sex and I would take it to a higher level. Permit me to ask this question:" How come we are not satisfied?" The truth is because we live an empty life. we expect the next thing to bring the gratification that we are looking for. The increasingly complex...is created to take us away from reality. Living in a fantasized world boosts the imagination to produce in order to keep up with our fleshy thoughts and desires. We base our happiness on a temporary moment that satisfies the body but not the mind. The cultural trend of gay/les is fed by the emptiness within us while the craving for lust whispers to us that there total happiness is waiting. We lie to ourselves and too many times we justify our lowly life saying:" Everybody is doing it" I said that I would take your question to a higher level but I remain in the same trend of thought: non-satisfaction. We live in an era where our wants way surpass our needs. The problem is that we never have enough. Consider all the amenities that now clutter our life and yet, we need more. We are insatiable because we are empty and like I said earlier : the next thing will fill the void. Real happiness I believe is found in the simple things in life and until we learn to redirect our path, our life will be increasingly complex while we search for ourselves.
2006-07-04 12:41:02 · answer #1 · answered by alpha & omega 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Out of all the people that have answered your question I've got to say Alpha & Omega and blueberry yum yum far supassed anything that was going to be typed by my hand [insert joke]. But Alpha & Omega's reply went across a wider area than your question actually went and before I continue let me just clairify that I am not really JBR I'm only typing under his name for a bit. Now as I was tring to say earlier Alpha & Omega's words can be said about any form addiction, the reason why it's started and the reason why it's thought as a perminent solution. On the other hand you have blueberry yum yum whom had a more direct response to what you asked I mean seriously before your first time if you've had a first time not that trying to seem mean but didn't/do you have your misconceptions about sex? And if you get used to the idea at an early age it gets worse because you already get bored with the concept before you even do anything and try to look for some outlandish way to get off [mind I'm not talking about myself just people I've met along the way]. So in short.....damn I forgot what I was going to type oh well I guess that's all for now.
2006-07-04 13:09:22 · answer #2 · answered by JBR 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's the mental foreplay, the excitement and the arousal. not the actual act of intercourse. If you have a bologna sandwich every single day for 5 years and some one comes by with a ham and cheese sandwich wouldn't that just grab your attention and make you really want it?
You now see the fundamentals of mental arousal and stimulation.
2006-07-04 11:49:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
with the availability of porn on the internet, peoples minor curiosities grow into addictions. their views on how sex is preformed and how people look or enjoy sex are also greatly skewed by the porn they watch. instead of experiencing it for themselves or finding out realistically, they go into cyber land where 'anything' is possible and even though its supposed to be 'fantasy' people don't put that into their memories as fantasy.. they put it into their memories as 'real life' and how things are 'supposed' to be
2006-07-04 11:40:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe they are willing to experience all that is out there for them
2006-07-04 11:42:24 · answer #5 · answered by arcangel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋