"im so miserable and i shouldnt be i have a chance at a possible new relationship with this new guy ive been seeing but im still so miserable i still miss the old one i had with my ex and i know hes not coming back i guess hes dating someone new from what i heard overall im just miserable i always hope that when my phone rings its him it never is whenever we do make plans to hang out he cancels on me and i want to hang out with him its also really hard not to call him everyday i dont want him to think im stalking him im just really miserable i havent seen him in 2 weeks and im leaving for college in august im afraid i wont see him again before then what can i do to stop going nuts?"
2006-07-04 11:19:07 · 3 answers · asked by bobbo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well, why did you guys break up? Remember that and think about why you really DON'T want to be with him. And while it seems so important right now, it's really not. You will forget and move on. Just give yourself some time. Jumping into a new relationship right off is not going to help you. Good luck.
2006-07-04 11:27:51 · answer #1 · answered by heidielizabeth69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to move on and forget about this ex if you have a chance to start a new relationship with someone new then try it if it doesnt work it doesnt work but dont let the fact that you still have these feelings for your ex affect you maybe you should try looking to the future instead of focusing on the past your ex is moving on by the sounds of it so you should to nobody is worth making yourself miserable i think the best thing that you could do is not call or arrange to meet him at all i no that easier said than done and if you dont see him before you leave college then that prob for the best aswell it will give you the chance to move on with your life and find happiness with someone new
2006-07-04 11:31:10 · answer #2 · answered by heldav 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know how you feel but you need to resolve your relationship with your old boyfriend first and all i can tell you someway somehow tell him how you feel and lay it out there and see what happens that is all you can do you might still be miserable but at least you gave it a chance and see what happens you never know he might feel the same but dont keep running after him and if you have a chance at something new go for it you can tell this person that you just got out of a relationship and that you are still trying to get over him but be honest and see this might be the best thing for you but you stay busy and do what is right for you and i do believe that if you are meant to be with this guy you will be so good luck to you and no matter how hard it is after you tell him how you truly feel let him come to you and dont call him nothing and it will get better it will just take time cc
2006-07-04 11:36:40 · answer #3 · answered by readyhead42@yahoo.com 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋