2006-07-04 11:18:52 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I would let him know how you feel and take it from there.
2006-07-06 01:51:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
I had the same problen except a bit of a different situation. I am bi and he was gay. I had the bigest crush on his so i was just strait with him and told him i was atracted to him. Well long story short he's now bi and weve been together for a year. Were compleatly in love. I say tell him how you feel and if he dosent return the feelings try to just be friends. But if you dont tell him you'll never know what could have happened. Good luck
2006-07-04 13:27:11 · answer #2 · answered by SexyLilChick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's straight, and not even the hottest guy can seduce him. If you've ever had a straight chick crush on you, you'd know what i am talking about.
Figure out what you like in him, then look for other *gay* guys who seem similar (ie athletic, educated, funny etc....)
2006-07-04 11:32:45 · answer #3 · answered by mithril 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave it alone...
Sorry honey, you are probably going to freak him out..
It's better that you keep your crush a secret and find someone who is gay...
Plus, it's natural to have a crush on a friend... Especially if he accepts you for who you are.
Good for you for telling him in the first place!
Now take your sexiness and find another man!
2006-07-04 11:28:36 · answer #4 · answered by kristijay99 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over it. If you're sure he's straight thus will have no interest in you romantically, by telling him your feelings, you'd risk losing that friendship. He might feel awkward around you knowing how you feel or you just might be hurt knowing that nothing can happen from your crush.
2006-07-04 11:22:21 · answer #5 · answered by sgrjackson1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have this problem. I'm a cute guy. Girls aren't interested in me, but I ALWAYS get hit on by the gay guys. Sucks to be a heterosexual.
My advice.....LEAVE HIM ALONE. That's what I want. You're only annoying him and making him despise gays. Plus.....hard as he's working trying to get a piece, you're distracting him in public making the girls think he's gay.
P.S. - he's not gonna change for you! Get over it.
2006-07-04 11:23:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, that's tough. I've been there a few times myself. Whenever I've acted on it, the result has been disastrous and embarrassing. My advice would be to spare yourself the humiliation and get over it. Life is not a movie, and love does not always triumph in these situations.
2006-07-04 11:29:09 · answer #7 · answered by BajaRob 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing. The operating word here is "Straight." Leave him alone, be friends with him, but don't try anything with him, period...You will be a stereotype if you do. Not much of a referrence in my book.
2006-07-04 11:50:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF YOU REALLY LOVE THIS GUY AS A FRIEND DON'T HURT HIM OR YOUR SELF BY CONFESSING THAT YOU HAVE A CRUSH ON HIM. I HAVE BEEN THROUGH IT MY BEST FRIEND KNOWS ALL ABOUT MY LIFE STYLE AND HE HAS EVEN BEEN TO OUR HOME HAYDEN AND MYSELF, BUT THE SAD PART OF MY STORY IS THAT IF BRANDON TOLD ME TODAY HE LOVES ME AND IT IS ME WHO HE WANTS, I WOULD LEAVE HAYDEN IN A HEART BEAT, I LOVE BOTH OF THEM BUT BRANDON HAS MY HEART. WE HAVE BEEN FRIENDS FOR THE LAST TEN YEARS AND THAT IS ALL IT SHOULD BE NOTHING MORE OR LESS. DON'T CROSS THE LINE.
2006-07-04 12:28:56 · answer #9 · answered by roverboy4life 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just talk to him and be straight with him and maybe if you get together with him we could have a 3 some
2006-07-04 11:34:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Resist your urges.
Hes straight and will not thank you for coming on to him
It spoils the friendship
2006-07-04 11:27:38 · answer #11 · answered by salforddude 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋