My father hates me in an unconditional way, what shall ı do to regain his love?

Answer 1

Leave his house, rent an apartment, graduate from college, stop wasting his money, behave nicely, etc.

How do you want an answer if you don't share information on subject?

Answer 2

Maybe your father does not know how to love or show it. I had this same problem. Try doing things to show your love for him even if it means giving up something you like or even if it gets to frustrating keep doing it. Your father loves you more then you know and just needs a little help showing it. In the long run he will break down and realize what a wonderful thing showing love can do. Sometimes parents can learn alot from there kids and thats part of being a healthy happy family.

Answer 3

It's hard to believe that your father truly hates you. It sounds like he must be very disappointed in you. Since you said you want to REGAIN his love, it sounds as if you had it once and lost it. A father's love is never truly gone; right now he must not trust you or respect you. Only you know the reason for that. Once you figure that out, show him that you can be trusted. Most of all, talk to him. Tell him you love him and want to regain his love. Ask him how! Good luck.

Answer 4

There is nothing you can do to make any one love you.

How ever I could not for the life of me see how anyone could hate their own child.

What ever the reason be you should not feel that you need to regain any ones love. It is nothing more than setting yourself up for more falls and heart ache.

I suggest that you give it time for things to cool off between you two and then try again later to come to an understanding, but not necessarily love.

Answer 5

May I suggest that you ask your father why he feels that way. You could get all the advice you want. but where does that lead you. Go to the source, maybe you two can work that out. Also I wouldn't focus so much why your father feels that way, instead focus on what you need

Answer 6

Sometimes absence does make the heart grow fonder, tell him your sorry he feels the way he does and let him know where your going and leave contact information then just leave. If its something you've done it may help , if its something you continue to do which he opposes than its not as likely he'll change his mind. Good luck and spend time with friends and perhaps other family members , which leads me to another idea , perhaps another family member could help smooth things out? Be selective and choose one who's opinion he is more likely to value. good luck too you!

Answer 7

You should stop trying to gain his love. Hes never gonna change. Change yourself instead. Love yourself and respect yourself better. I know it sounds harsh, but there are some people who will never change. I suggest you should go talk to a professional about it because there can be some reprercussions that has to do with men and relationships about this.

Answer 8

there is nothing we can do to change someone's heart
there is no use to try as hard as possible to be people's pleaser

what matter most is that we do our part
we can't control one's reaction to us

but we can love
and expect nothing in return
but we can pray
and believe that God is able to speak to each one of us
but we can pray
and know that God will do something in His way
to show us love
to show your father His love
so that your father may love others, including you

someone who can't love
needs love
love him
pray for him
show him love
pray that God will shower him with His love
then both of you will celebrate God's love in each other

Answer 9

If there is a reason for him to be upset w/you talk to him. If not, get on w/your life and know that you tried and he decided on what type of relationship you are going to have. Sometimes w/people like that, it is healthier not to have them in your life.

Answer 10

Communicate with your father.