If a fella wont tell you where he lives can you tust him?If a fella was living with a g/friend when u first met is he the kind of bloke that will be true to you?If a bloke lives with this woman for 4 years and swears he has never slept with her is it possible?
2006-07-04 09:22:27 · 19 answers · asked by jj g 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
1. A trustworthy man has no problem with you knowing where he lives.
2. If he was unfaithful to girlfriend no.1 with you, the chances are high that he will be unfaithful to you with another woman.
3. It is unlikely that he has lived with someone for 4 years and not had any sexual contact with that person.
I've read your questions and I honestly think that this relationship is doing you no favours at all. There are so many really decent men out there who are upfront and won't wreck your peace of mind like this. While this man remains in your life you are not having a real chance to move on and meet someone who is able to be a real partner to you. A normal/healthy relationship does not require the kind of questioning you are putting yourself through.
You deserve better than this. If you don't know this then you need to work on your sense of self-worth so that you do know it, beyond a shadow of a doubt.
Good luck in moving on from this.
2006-07-04 22:32:56 · answer #1 · answered by Sun is Shining ❂ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no to all 3
2006-07-04 16:26:21 · answer #2 · answered by beerz24_7 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm. There are some variables you haven't considered yet. Maybe his job requires a phone on silence. If he won't tell you where he lives, I'd be suspicious - but only if you're in a committed relationship with him. No way would I trust a guy that was with someone else when I met him and why would you date someone who has another girl? No way did he not sleep with a chick he lived with for four years. No way. Unless: she was his sister or mother.
2006-07-04 16:29:42 · answer #3 · answered by shehawke 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion sweety it sounds like 'he just isn't into u' quote from sex n the city (my bible), He doesn't sound like he's really the right guy for you, in fact i wouldn't wish this man on anyone,. Im sure he's a luvly person really but he's not somone i think i'd give my heart to, Risk Factor : very high!! Oh yeah and silent mobile very dodgy !! x
2006-07-04 17:55:03 · answer #4 · answered by Girl From Mars 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not always he could be sleeping or doing something important or w/e but sounds to me like he needs to get his game together b4 he ends up with no 1, I would say it's a 99.9999% chance that he banged her at least once when he got drunk or high or somethin but he fuked her at least once. Hope it helps
2006-07-04 16:29:38 · answer #5 · answered by random middle school kid 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are dating him, just remain quiet and listen to what he is saying, and pay attention to his voice and how he respond. Then you make the decision if he is honest or not. If he is not honest, you are no longer dating him.
2006-07-04 16:28:19 · answer #6 · answered by SweetBrunette 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need a man that has these issues --- he's hiding something --- find a man that's ready and available for romance.
2006-07-04 16:29:01 · answer #7 · answered by jaimestar64cross 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are thinking between your legs.
Because obviously the brain is not working.
2006-07-09 12:48:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't trust him as far as I could throw him. Sounds very very dodgy.
2006-07-04 16:25:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hahaha.. i pulled that stunt once.. it didnt work coz my girl was smart. moral of the story... find someone trust worthy. good luck to u
2006-07-04 16:27:13 · answer #10 · answered by Dave 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋