i'm 26 and my hubby is 36 .we married 3 yrs ago and now it seems that he is not in love with me like the past .he is a university teacher and has a very close relationship with gurls....does it affect our life?i don't know......I really love him,and somehow feel jeleous .....
how can I attract him more?
is he going to betray me in early future??????
about sex ,we have no problem so what else can cause this problem?
sometimes i have a strange feeling about him,love and hate ....at the same time....it's bothering.....
please help me....
2006-07-04 09:11:32 · 9 answers · asked by maryam 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
that's normal. marraige sucks.
if you want to get him interested in you again, try becoming interested in yourself. do things without him. and don't tell him - leave little hints. men need mystery and to hunt. make him hunt you. make sure he knows you're having fun with or without him and that he is not needed. he'll come chasing.
2006-07-04 09:18:06 · answer #1 · answered by Gabrielle 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You know marriage changes with time. You know the study that just came out about our hormones that flourish with lust and falling in love last about 24 months (very bad joke someone has played on us all!). That's why there are so many divorces at the 2 year period of marriage. Has he given you any reason to feel insecure. Try doing some special things for him - for the 2 of you. You can keep your relationship fresh, but, you cannot change him. Make sure you stay on an intellectual par with him. The other suggestions on here are good, too.
2006-07-04 09:43:03 · answer #2 · answered by limeyheart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't change him. And don't change yourself for him. If you don't like whats going on then talk to him but you be in control of the conversation. I completely understand where you are coming from with the whole trust thing. My husband is in the military and is hardly ever home, plus he is stuck on a ship for months at a time. It never fails... I always think of him being with some other girl. I really don't' know what to tell you about the whole betraying you in the future. Sorry
2006-07-04 09:19:50 · answer #3 · answered by mommyof2_2006 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I notice women asking a lot of these types of questions on here and I think the big thing is you need to be able to tell your husband how you feel without reservation. I married my husband because I know I can go up to him and say, "you doing this, makes me feel like this." You shouldn't have to worry about compeating with other girls because he made his vows to love you forever. If it is all that bad you should think about counciling.
2006-07-04 09:21:21 · answer #4 · answered by Constant_Traveler 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
fact of the matter is that marriage really sucks, that is the stupidest concept we have in society. Whatever you are thinking he is doing is probably true. Men are jerks and unfaithful so you need to have a serious talk with him
2006-07-04 09:35:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
flirt more often with him.
Show him more skin.
The flesh is king for men.
It's like a magnet for our eyes.
Get a little skimpier for him.
2006-07-04 09:19:59 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't answer whether or not he will be faithful in the future, but if he has already been unfaithful......chances are he will be again. Let him know how you feel and take it from there.
2006-07-04 09:25:43 · answer #7 · answered by asitcomes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Although our relationships can be complicated, the answer to your question is extremely simple: You can NEVER get ANYONE to do ANYTHING. They either want to love you or they don't.
2006-07-04 09:20:49 · answer #8 · answered by ocean 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U REALLY NEED TO TALK TO HIM AND SHOW HIM HOW U FEEL I AM SURE THAT IF HE LOVES U STILL HE IS GOING TO TRY HIS BEST TO MAKE U FEEL BETTER
2006-07-04 14:00:58 · answer #9 · answered by JAZY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋