Are You Happily Married or Not?

Question

Worth 10 points
You have to answer ALL the questions to earn the points:

1) Are you male/female?
2) How long have you been married?
3) Are you happily or unhappily married?
4) If you are happily married, what is your secret to a successful marriage?
5) If you are unhappily married, what is it in your marriage that needs work?
6) If you are unhappily married, are you and your spouse actively working on the problems?
7) Do you have children?
8) How many and ages?
9) Do you think your married would have been better if you haven't had kids?
10) Is you spouse active in your kid(s) life(ves)?

Thanks for participating.

I hope this will be helpful to all of the married couples out there.

By the way, here are my answers.
1) male
2) 6yrs
3) Happily
4) Love, prayer and the word of God.
5) Married isn't easy, requires constent WORK!
6) We both trust God. - How can two walk together unless they are agreed? Amos3:3
7) Yes
8) 3 kids - age 4, 3 & 5 months
9) No
10) Y

Answer 1

Are You Happily Married or Not? YES, still have challenges, but we always overcome them together and with the Lord's help.

1) female

2) 6.5 years

3) happily

4) Prayer and trusting the Lord Jesus to help me keep improving and changing and to help my husband keep improving and changing -- next to having a good solid friendship with true unconditional love, I believe this is the most important ingredient of marriage

5) --even though I feel we're happily married, there is still lots of "work" that each of us need to do, as mentioned in #4

6) n/a

7) yes children

8) girl 4, yo boy 3 yo, girl 5.5 months

9) marriage would have been worse if we hadn't had kids because being parents has challenged us to grow, improve, and change more than we were doing without them

10) my husband is active in the kids' lives when he's here, but he's also in the Army of the Lord and away from us for periods of time

By the way, thanks for this awesome survey...that was pretty good.

Answer 2

1) Female
2) 4 years
3) Happily
4) Mutual respect, patience, understanding and Love.
5) Marriages need work on communication.
6) We take each day as it comes and don't sleep with anger.
7) Yes
8) 1 boy 16 months
9) No. Children are gifts from God and Blessings to a family.
10) Yes. Very much.
Thank you.

Answer 3

1) M
2) 6.5yrs
3) HAPPY
4) Prayer & Love & A COVENANT WITH GOD
5) Being Married is alot of WORK - I agree!
6) Same as Answer 5.
7) Yes
8) 3 kids
9) No
10) Very active

Answer 4

Female,33,married, 3 years,togather 6 years.Happy,The word,knowing Jesus Christ,and haveing that in common with my husband for 2 years now.patients,practice of self controll,communcation.Not unhappy at all, yes we do have problems typical of most everyday marriages but we remember how the word gives us peace in its teachings.Yes we have 3 children.Ages 17, a boy. 12 a girl and 21 month old baby boy.haveing children did not change the amount of love I have for my husband. Yes my husband is active in our childrens lives.

Answer 5

1) female
2) 7 years
3) happily married
4) Love, humor, Prayer & communication
5) Marriage is like a garden - it can grow and thrive if you tend it and care for it
6) N/A
7) Yes
8) 3 - ages 15, 13, and 5
9) No
10) yes.

Answer 6

1) female
2) 3 years
3) happily married
4) marry the one you trust with you heart. your best friend.
5) Marriage requires work there are it's ups and it's downs just don't giveup so easily
6) we alway talk our problems out. never go to bed mad
7) yes
8) 2-20 months and 5 months
9) nope they made our marrige stronger
10) he tried to be but he is military so he is gone a lot

Answer 7

1. I'm a girl
2. 31 years
3. happily married
4. we love each other and can't stand to be apart
5. marriage isn't easy
6. yes i have children
7. i have ten children 5 boys and five girls
ages re oldest to youngest
1. son is 30
2. daughter is 26
3. son is 23
4. son is 20
5. daughter is 18
6. daughter is 16
7. twin sons is 13
8. twin daughters is 11

9. no marriage is better with children
10. yes

Answer 8

1)Female
2)14 years
3)Very happily
4)Prayer, patience, understanding, listening to your partner
5)Marriage is a commitment between 2 people, it takes work but is worth the effort.
6)We have had struggles in the past...money, family, etc., but we stuck by each other and held each other up.
7)Not together.
8)N/A (I have two children, 24 and 25)
9)N/A
10)N/A (my husband is as active, as my children will allow him to be, in their lives)

Answer 9

1. Female
2. Just short of one year
3. VERY happily married
4. We respect each other & were best friends before we dated- it helps!
5. n/a
6. n/a
7.Nope, in a couple years we will
8. n/a
9. Sometimes I think I want to have a child with my husband, sometimes I think I want it to be just us forever. I'm afraid I will always love my husband more than my children.
10. n/a

Answer 10

female ,19 years,unhappy, we have tried but no luck on working it out,no we r not trying to work it out,yes,3 kids 5yrs 14yrs 19yrs,probably not,sometimes when we wants to.