You love soembody so much that when they leave for important reason or uncontrolling reason what should a person do? stay and wait for them to come or just move on?
2006-07-04 09:00:57 · 15 answers · asked by Da KiNg 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If you have been with that person for a while and have quite a bit invested in the relationship, then you should wait for that person. If they are imprisoned, then you should take the reason they're imprisoned into account. If they are in jail for drugs or something minor, then you should really think about staying and supporting that person. If they're incarcerated due to serious felonies or ever murder, it might be best to move on.
However, if they are away from you due to that person being in the military, there is no doubt you should wait for that person. They are risking their lives for our country and if they have someone who loves them back home, it gives them the hope and the courage to carry on. I have a neighbor who son is in the army and his wife, the mother of his two children, decided to file for divorce while he was stationed over in Iraq and it broke his heart.
2006-07-04 09:49:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let whatever happens happen. Are you married to this person? If so that's a bit of a different story. But if you aren't married then I would say do what you feel in your heart is right. If you feel like you have met someone else that you can be happy with, then by all means go with that person. Time also dulls feelings, keep that in mind. If you want to wait, then wait. Just feel it out. The answer will come to you when the time is right.
2006-07-04 16:04:46 · answer #2 · answered by FaerieWhings 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on the reason and whether or not the relationship is really good or not. if its military you wait, if its prison you run, if its a job then its a choice and thats a little trickier. it also depends on the length of time they'll be gone, if its a job and permanent relocation then you move on or go with them. military they'll be home eventually, prison who cares they did it to themselves and didn't care enough about the relationship to do the simple task of not breaking the law.
2006-07-04 16:58:06 · answer #3 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say that you shouldn't make any promises, and evaluate your feelings at least once a month. A lot of times, you will find that your feelings for someone change with some time apart. If you continue to find that you want to wait, that's what you should do. You shouldn't cheat, cause it will 'cause trouble later on, even if she doesn't find out.
2006-07-04 16:06:00 · answer #4 · answered by kevin m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on how much you love them to begin with. if you know that they are coming back and you love them, then what difference does time make? if they aren't coming back and you love them... you should try hard to make if work. if it doesn't then so be it, but at least try. always try, that way you won't have regrets. if you don't love them, and you don't need them in your life, try to stay in touch and if you don't, then oh well. but never just write someone off
2006-07-04 16:07:30 · answer #5 · answered by espamn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kinda depends on the situation.Are they leaving cuase they want to get away from you or because they have to due to some obligation.
Follow your heart and you will find the right path.
2006-07-04 16:05:36 · answer #6 · answered by Axewielderx 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Military? Stay.
Prison? Move on.
2006-07-04 16:04:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends if you really love this person then stay they will be back.........if not then move on but u may have different feelings when they come back.............just think about it and see what your true feelings are for them..............could you bear to see them with someone else or not.............I am in college and I am trying that whole long distance relationship thing but it is hard and you just have to work things out in the end..........Good Luck.............
2006-07-04 16:07:07 · answer #8 · answered by Mia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I tend to agree with Reesi. Unless you know in your heart of hearts they are guilty of what they are accused of. I have a friend who believes everyone deserves a second chance and gets hurt time and time again. Don't let that be you.
2006-07-04 16:05:14 · answer #9 · answered by asitcomes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love them stay with them. You can always have a long distance relationship.
2006-07-04 16:04:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋