I'll start from the beginning, I have been raised in a christian home but around jr high I fell away from God and got into pornography, mostly due to that fact that my bro did it so I was curious, then I got out of it and gave my life back to Christ, then in high school I didn't really date because I knew that sexual immorality was a problem area for me, especially after the exposure to porn, but there was one girl who I didn't have any problems with, we got together, and on my end I had to be patient and loving to support her cus she was going through a lot, I never left her when she need me, she described me as the perfect guy and gentlemen, then half way through our relationship, about 1 year, I fell back into sin and cheated on her, now the cheating stage is over but she needed to know..I couldn't tell her, didn't want to break her heart, so one of the girls brought something up, so I would have to, I love her,she says she stil cares, but doesn't love anymore, what should I do,help
2006-07-04 08:53:44 · 7 answers · asked by strangenate@sbcglobal.net 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
you need to grow up before getting yourself in a serious releationship
2006-07-04 08:59:21 · answer #1 · answered by Gabrielle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend cheated on me. I loved him very much and even after he did it I couldn't stop loving him. I hated him, I hated what he had done to me, and how he made me feel. I would never say that I didn't love him though. I think that that was what made it hurt so bad. She says she doesn't love you any more because it probably hurts to bad to look at you the same way, with that feeling that you can only have when trust is there. Me and my guy still fight and he still makes me cry, but we have worked through it and still love each other as much if not more then before it happened. If you really want to let get her back get her alone in a room and actually talk. Let her say what she really feels, and tell her you will always be there for her if you can't stay together. That love will always be there but don't do it again, and you might have a chance of getting back together. If you want to know more of how it happened with me contact me.
2006-07-04 09:02:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i did the same thing but only my girl never knew bout it. explain to her that every man needs some attention but only that u got the attention from someone else which was a BIG MISTAKE!! drag ur sorry *** all the way to her door step and give her a good " I'M SORRY" speech.
2006-07-04 09:00:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u love her u have to GET HER BACK! try and win her love again...or try being friends with her again and things might work to your advantage...
good luck
2006-07-04 08:59:35 · answer #4 · answered by Velvet Rain Drops 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have more will power or love her enough to let her go.
2006-07-04 08:57:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you betrayer her not once but twice, seriously stay away from her before you hurt her anymore
2006-07-04 08:57:31 · answer #6 · answered by half insane 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay away from her uness you tell her speak from your heart
2006-07-04 08:59:47 · answer #7 · answered by sweet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋