I was caught with another guy play with a toy and now my parentals wont talk to me. what can i do. my life is just a black abyss now. they think im gay just cause they saw me kiss a guy!
2006-07-04 08:49:05 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
im not even an emo kid ,
2006-07-04 08:51:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
From what little is here and in your profile there is not much advice that will solve your situation.
The best I can tell you place sexual activity in it's own category separate from a definition of who you are. i.e. Just because I jumped off the bridge does not mean I was trying to kill myself I might just have wanted to go for a swim.
You and your parents need to learn new way to communicate. It is a common problem for teens. Professionals can help but it means you asking/insisting that your parents arrange it and with a counselor that you can relate with and respect.
Your other options are:
Run away (highly not advised)
Do yourself In (again highly not advised)
Suffer in silence until you are of age and spend Thousands of dollars your self on therapy.
Talk to your parents. I bet they do care about you and would like to help if they knew how.
2006-07-04 17:18:54 · answer #2 · answered by mike g 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your parents need to be more open with respect to you, you are their son, nothing wrong with what you do or like, you are a human being, that's enough to love you.
Nothing wrong kissing a guy, are Russians all gays? they kiss each other.
2006-07-04 20:44:16 · answer #3 · answered by bigonegrande 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Goodness, your parents certain jump to hasty conclusions, don't they? I mean, come on now..one little kiss? Oh..just what part were you kissing when they walked in...give us all the details..expiring minds want to know!
2006-07-04 18:57:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
"they think im gay just cause they saw me kiss a guy!"
um... I think they might be right dude.
2006-07-04 15:57:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, that is a big sign. i can understand if you were bi or bi curious, but dude. you were kissing a guy. i would think the same thing. anyway, if your parents are homophobic, then they're probably starting to disown you. however, if they're not, then they're probably just getting use to it.
2006-07-04 17:30:31 · answer #6 · answered by gaygoddevil 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This "I'm not gay I just do guys" thing is total bullsh*t. OK then I'm not into bestiality, I just f*ck dogs. You do guys, you're gay or bi. Period. Words mean things, sir.
2006-07-11 09:52:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are gay i think it it is important that you tell your parents.
if you are not gay just tell your parents you were experimenting. People do this all the time
2006-07-04 15:56:16 · answer #8 · answered by Tzvi G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it. Just let it die down for a bit. They are just shocked.
2006-07-04 16:09:06 · answer #9 · answered by ♂ Randy W. ♂ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ride it out dude.......and stop making out with guys if your straight. It gives people bad impressions lol.
2006-07-04 17:55:12 · answer #10 · answered by T. Emopire 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's your life i know it's hard but you know if thats what you want be happy with it and forget about the past just be happy
2006-07-10 19:06:38 · answer #11 · answered by jova18cali 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋