My friend is gay and I thought he was a really great person. I knew he had HIV but I really didn't care. Last week he told me that he slept with a guy without protection. What's worse yet is he didn't tell the guy he was infected with HIV. I was completely discusted. I don't want to even have anything to do with him. Basically he just held a gun to this guys head and played russian roulette with his life. What would you do if you heard this? I don't even know who this other guys is.
2006-07-04 08:48:37 · 12 answers · asked by Laura 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
This actually has nothing to do with him being gay...it could easily have been a woman and a man...I really shouldn't have put it in this category.
2006-07-04 08:58:36 · update #1
Ok my answer to you is this:
A person who knowingly spreads around HIV to others is committing a crime.Now you can still care for him but you don't have to remain his friend and perhaps you should tell him that either he tells that person he has HIV and should get tested or you should find out who it was and tell them yourself and/or you should notify the authorities, not to tell on him, but to find out what you should do and what he should do.Knowingly spreading HIV is a crime!
2006-07-04 09:01:46 · answer #1 · answered by BuckFush 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
sorry to hear that your friend was so irresponsible and careless to do such a thing to another human being. But then again, why would this other person have allowed a complete stranger to have sex with him without protection. They are both at fault here. I am so sorry to sya this, but maybe you should alert whoever he is with that it is very necessary to use protection when having intercourse with this friend of yours. i know this is a very personal thing, but your friend and this person that he was with can very easily infect many other people. the other person without knowing any better and your friend purspsefully. this is a very sad situation. some people infected with this virus/disease get so angry at the idea of being infected that they just want others to feel their pain. sounds like he might need some counceling. he has some issues to work out, and it is important that he understandes that what he has is something that he should not bring about to anyone else's life. good luck
2006-07-04 15:57:28 · answer #2 · answered by one_sera_phim 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is very very wrong of him to do that. If I were you I would never talk to him again. That guy could get HIV and it could turn into AIDS and he could die. I knew a guy that slept with a hooker that had HIV, and she knew it, but had sex with him anyway. He has HIV and has had it for a very long time. He's very lucky it didn't turn into AIDS. Your friend can get arrested for doing that. You should tell the police. They will get your friend to tell them who the guy was so they can go to him and help. If he does have HIV now, he can get treatments so it doesn't turn into AIDS. If untreated, it will most likley turn into AIDS. You could be saving a life if you tell the police.
2006-07-04 15:54:13 · answer #3 · answered by ♀♥♂☮Trippy Hippie☮♂♥♀ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HIV would have died out in a generation of people would have just acted like grown ups about their sexual practices in the 80's. Your friend is part of the problem and needs a thrashing.
2006-07-11 06:05:27 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might be lying?
If he's not, may God protect the infected person.
Your gay friend is an idiot, now HIV is going to spred FAST>
:'(
from your friends' one night stand to a nieghbour, to a family member, to a long lost cosin, to a party host, to so many people. . .
2006-07-04 15:51:55 · answer #5 · answered by Pistaccio 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG
Let this be a lesson to all who read it that you can trust no one when it comes to sex. Use a condom every time. This is why I dont do anal sex. You are 700% more likely to get HIV or any STD from anal sex than any other form of penatrative sex.
2006-07-04 16:13:52 · answer #6 · answered by ♂ Randy W. ♂ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He hates the other person and try to kill him; if he has a little care for a human being, he should practice safe sex
2006-07-04 20:48:00 · answer #7 · answered by bigonegrande 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call Police Services, Tell them all you know
Call them Now
2006-07-04 15:52:52 · answer #8 · answered by chairbinder 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats awful and its not fair on the other guy. they are both f***ed in the head for not using protection
2006-07-04 19:02:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u made me know why my religion (ISLAM) said its a forbidden thing to do sex wiz ppl (except my wife)
thnx a lot
2006-07-04 15:53:41 · answer #10 · answered by aimooon87 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋