He acts like such an *** sometimes and I keep it to myself but sometimes I really feel hateful towards him.
2006-07-04 08:19:14 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think every one gets upset with there mate at some time. But if you really feel hateful towards him. Maybe you need some help. Have you talked to him about it? If it is a really big issue maybe counseling would help. Especially if you want to stay married.
And having an affair is not going to help. It never does. Do you still love him? And have you thought about what it is he does that makes you feel so hateful? Good Luck.
2006-07-04 08:25:38 · answer #1 · answered by kourtney_h75 1 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Well its OK to hate him for the moment but if you really feel that way you should leave or maybe get some companion from somewhere else and then compare what you have to what you have gotten yourself into (the marriage)
or maybe he having an affair some times attitudes give off guilt.
2006-07-04 15:24:50 · answer #2 · answered by michellegprix99@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, it don't matter who you are sharing a place with --- sooner or later the moods/attitudes come to surface and you will feel hate/anger/envy etc... --- that's emotions and we each deal with all kinds of emotions daily....just like at work --- I remember each week someone there would be dealing with some drama in their life and take out their frustrations on the person nearest them.....
2006-07-04 15:30:03 · answer #3 · answered by jaimestar64cross 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is easy to hate the things your husband does because you may have loved everything about him when you first met; because the longer you live with someone the more irritating the things you once loved become annoying.
2006-07-04 15:31:17 · answer #4 · answered by warmbreezes26 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's doing things that make you feel that way. He keeps that up and someday he may kill everything you ever felt for him and disliking him will be more than just a passing feeling.
2006-07-04 15:24:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it's because he's not taking caring of your needs. Your relationship/marriage needs much work.
2006-07-05 14:51:27 · answer #6 · answered by Basilchef 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm glad i'm not the only one. lol i feel like that sometimes too, it's normal i think....just the ups and downs of marriage. i think that old saying runs true....can't live with em' can't live without em'.
2006-07-04 15:24:00 · answer #7 · answered by origchick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably thinks the same about you
2006-07-04 15:27:41 · answer #8 · answered by beer_pharts 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is your husband and you are married. Girl he will get on your damn nerves. but it is normal.
2006-07-04 19:04:22 · answer #9 · answered by Babygirl86 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe its time to have an affair
2006-07-04 15:22:07 · answer #10 · answered by john a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋