well i really dont like people anymore they are really getting on my nervous what do i do
2006-07-04 08:00:43 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
see ur dr he can help with that
2006-07-04 08:06:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's kind of a vague question. There are days when I don't really like people and they get on my nerves too. Do you mean people in general or specific people? Are they on your nerves all the time or only once in a while? If it's a constant thing and you are just feeling irritated by everyone, maybe you need to seek out a therapist, they can help you figure out why it is that you are feeling this irritation.
2006-07-04 15:03:05 · answer #2 · answered by jet_333 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is your problem with people exactly? Your not being very specific. People get on my nerves all the time but life goes on. You can always move to the mountains and become a hermit. Hermits don't have anything to do with people. But you will be living a very lonely existence. When that happens, step back, take a deep breath and say, "God I forgive them for being stupid", it might make you feel better.
2006-07-04 15:04:55 · answer #3 · answered by Barb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just have met the wrong people it sounds like. Sometimes stress can make you feel this way and you just need to be alone for awhile, that is natural there is nothing wrong with you. You just need to do what is best for you at this present time. If you need time alone, then take it. Things will work out for you and when you feel better, your outlook on people will change.
2006-07-04 15:04:13 · answer #4 · answered by funnyface53 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everywhere you go you are going to run into people that get on your nervous or you can't stand to be around. That is something that you just have to learn how to deal with, you are going to have to communicate with people the rest of your life. You can't really do anything about it, except learn to except the fact that you have to deal with people forever.
2006-07-04 15:17:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
um. tecnically nothing's wrong. maybe if u dont like ppl anymore then dont . but maybe u should still care for ppl. cus then if u were mean to a person and imagine that u were them. u wouldnt feel that good either.. do unto other as u would have them do unto u.!
2006-07-04 15:06:35 · answer #6 · answered by bLessed; 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, i know the feeling. I can relate to this one in a big way.
When your in your 20's and you have so many questions and not enough answers when it comes to people and their behavior towards you and others.
When you've realized this, you've also begun the Journey of Life... the real journey of discovery and understanding.
Yes, don't mean to sound hoaky or anything like that, but the truth is, that is what it is all about... understanding people and understanding why they act the way they do.
First off, realizing that 99% of the people out there are just out for themselves and/or for money will separate those that we don't want to be with from those that we do. They are selfish, fake sincereity and claim to be your friends when in fact they are not, and out just for themselves and do nothing but hurt us.
The 1% of the population who are the right type of people for us only want the very best for us and no matter what only want us to be happy. They have high levels of self esteem, self confidence, and self worth and encourage you to do what you've always wanted in life without judging you , just accepting you as you are. They are low maintenance types who just want to share their lives and their experiences with you and get the very best out of life while growing as individuals with you .
I understand why people can easily be disliked. In fact, there are a few other things you should be aware of too..
Today's society gives us plenty of choice. People want to be happy and have plenty of choices to make. Some are just lazy , others are ambitious. There are wide gaps in their behavior too.
What separates us from them is the fact that we have values. Trust, Honesty, Respect, Caring, sharing, Appreciation, A Sense of Humor and most of all, Unconditional Love are what we really want in life from others and that is what we want to give too.
We do have ambition too. We want to give back to others and we do this by using our own abilities to give back. Our intellectual side helps us to maintain the status quo at the same time allowing us to contribute in ways that nobody else can.
Problem is, people get jealous. They are very envious, and thoughtless, and do things that royally piss us off at times and this really makes us think about it even more.
Have Patience. Have Faith. Remember, no matter what, there will always be people out there who want to bring us down to their level always and we never give in and shouldn't either. Understanding them is what we need to do , rather than fight them.
The solution here is to find an interest within yourself that really defines who you are , the center core, you might say. Once you realize this, ignore those who are negative, and join up with these people who share your interests. Have a sense of purpose and when it comes to finding out your true self and being able to share it with others, that will give you plenty of room to make new friendships with new people and open many many new doors.
We all have interests. We all want to do things inside of us that we've never gtried but always wanted to. Go ahead, give it some thought and really make it work for you, rather than letting people persuade you to be more like them.
2006-07-04 15:09:53 · answer #7 · answered by snorkelman_37 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people are just better off being anti-social.
You don't have to deal with other peoples drama in your life.
The only drawback is you never have people help you carry furniture when you are moving
2006-07-04 15:07:58 · answer #8 · answered by Astro Gurl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Smith/Wesson 45
2006-07-04 15:03:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Volunteer you services with an agency that helps people. You'll find good people are volunteers.
2006-07-04 15:03:32 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore everyone and live like a hermit until you change how you feel.
2006-07-04 15:08:32 · answer #11 · answered by Dusty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋