ok so me and my bf went out for 7 months...school ended, over the summer vacation, bcuz we lived far apart and other reasons, we decided we shouldnt be as serious, he said he wanted an open relationship, and i didnt...so i broke up with him...we talked abt it more, decided that we should just go on a break for all of summer and when school started we would see what we wanted to do. anyways he is back in the city for summer classes...and i went to see him...i really like him and i want to be with him, but he doesnt want to be together, claiming he needs space. anyways the last time we hung out-- sex came up, and basically i didnt want to cuz we werent "together" and he basically doesnt see it that way, and he says he doesnt want to be in a relationship for just sex...which is totally true. he says neither of us is seeing anyone else and we will get back together anyway so we shud just .so anywayz cuz im a f'n idiot it happened.
2006-07-04 07:50:09 · 6 answers · asked by beautiful is a phase 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Don't be to hard on yourself. It sounds like you tried to "save" your relationship with you boyfriend by giving in.
But he's a PLAYER. Get rid of him! There are some gentlemen out there --they are in hiding but they exist.
2006-07-04 08:03:19 · answer #1 · answered by urbancoyote 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself why would you want to be with someone who doesn't want to be with you. You deserve better than that. Why do you think he is such a great catch. He is only using you for sex....If he really liked you for other reasons he would want to be with you all the time. I can see why he would want to break up while he is gone. Long distance relationships are to hard enough when both people are head over heels in love...That is not the picture I get from your relationship. Move on girl....Get someone that will love you back and treat you with respect not just a toy to play with when he is ready.
2006-07-04 15:08:33 · answer #2 · answered by duck 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well thats just a shame , y not just wait til marriage for sex , is sex really all that nessisary to u ?right now just finish school and get a job ,one day the right guy for u will come along
2006-07-04 14:55:32 · answer #3 · answered by cc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you 2 should be just close friends for a while if he don't want a commented relationship. or maybe you should just let him go and find someone who does want to get to know you and wants a commented relationship.
2006-07-04 14:59:56 · answer #4 · answered by tinny tot 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems to me all he wants is sex. If you have strong feelings for this guy they will go away.You had a life before him and you can have a life after him.just stay strong.
2006-07-04 14:58:42 · answer #5 · answered by dnslndsy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes our bodies take us places we know we shouldn't go. Don't beat yourself up for something your hormones did! But I still don't think this guy is right for you, if he doesn't make you feel valuable and loved.
2006-07-04 14:58:57 · answer #6 · answered by soccerfamilys 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋