Everytime my boyfriend and i have sex i can only last like 20 mins before it hurts to much that we HAVE to stop. Is this normal? Like i want to be with him like all the time probably more than he wants to be with me.. Is there anything i can do???
2006-07-04 07:43:35 · 13 answers · asked by lindsay G 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You may have some type of infection, not an std, which can cause that. I think yeast infections can cause pain.
2006-07-04 07:47:41 · answer #1 · answered by ladysodivine 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well that depends on if you're a guy or not (and yes, there is a difference) so for the sake of it all, if you're female you've gotten some pretty decent advice for additional lubrication: KY, Astroglide. If you're using condoms (which you should) make certain the gels & lubes will not break down the condoms during sex.
Keep in mind that foreplay does more than just increase the sexual pleasure, it can also provide you with more relaxation prior to penetration, it can promote your natural body moisture, all sorts of different things. You should have your partner go down on you. His saliva, along with your natural body moisture, and any added lubes (with care & patience) should prove you well!
2006-07-04 14:56:05 · answer #2 · answered by R C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is abnormally large, this may be causing the problem. Also, if you don't produce enough natural lubrication, you may need to ad some lubricant, like KY Jelly.
If neither of these is the problem, you should see your gyn doctor. If you don't have one, get one, or ask your regular family doctor. There could be a serious issue.
2006-07-04 14:46:07 · answer #3 · answered by michael941260 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart, you need to see a doctor. You could have a condition called a curved pelvis. He might be hitting something inside of you that causes pain. Alot of pain. I have the same thing happens to me and thats what it is. Lubrication might help but do go see a doctor. It might be something you can't solve yourself.
2006-07-04 14:48:21 · answer #4 · answered by Barb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can be painful and you have to know before buying/trying using lubricant. Lubricant could help but what about your 'anatomy'? Is it naturally, biologically small/tight making it too painful to enjoy?
Then you have to decide and ask professionals/doctor if problem prolong.
2006-07-04 14:50:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOu need to try lube... KY warming gel is the BEST. YOu can also tell him to slow down and be a bit more gentle. Men appreciate directions in bed!!
2006-07-04 14:45:11 · answer #6 · answered by KB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had the same thing happening to me. Go to the Dr. You could have an infection or worse. Have yourself checked out.
2006-07-04 14:50:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk with him and tell him that u love him and that you want him to slow down so both of you can enojy the night
use some kind of lubricant like the others said and hopefully if your boyfriend loves you he will slow it down and take your advice
GOOD LUCK
2006-07-04 14:47:18 · answer #8 · answered by citygirl18 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes; quit having sex with this guy.
2006-07-04 14:47:20 · answer #9 · answered by Busy Lady 2010 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
use more lube. try astroglide it's awesome. oh and be thankful your guy can last so long lol.
2006-07-04 14:45:31 · answer #10 · answered by aj607 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋