Guys: What would you do if you were married to a woman and she cheated and got preg. with another mans baby and you didnt know the baby wasnt yours until later down the road. After, You have wasted money, time, and love on this child? Lets throw all the factors in: Who's to say she wouldnt get preg. again with another man's baby? Is she really worth being with? Will that kid oneday say "You're not my Dad" when he/she was mad? What if she decides not to have anymore kids after that one (which means your name, genes, traits, stop with you)? Would you stay? Would you leave? Or would you do something even more dramtic?
2006-07-04 07:40:23 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well being lied to and having my trust betrayed, by some cheating whore would send me in to a berserk rage, it would be better to kill me than betray me, mommy and junior and the other man would take a trip up to the woods but they wouldn't come back, hell maybe the kid wouldn't have to get it, but mommy and Mr. dick would take a trip. I guess that's what the courts would call a crime of passion and the individual could claim temporary insanity.
2006-07-04 15:43:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd kick the hoe to the curb. She better go live with that baby's dad. I not having that sh*t around mean. That is the ultimate sin in marriage. She is no longer worth the time or energy. Once a liar always a liar.
You can't make a hoe into a housewife. You let a hoe be a hoe. She was one before she was married and it carried over. She is forever untrustworthy and she can never take that back at this point because of the baby.
Did you do this? Is that why your asking? If you did. Think about what your asking about yourself.
2006-07-04 07:50:01 · answer #2 · answered by lhm1968 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'd promote off him asap. If he likes yet another woman and he or she him, WHAT ARE YOU DOING??? genuine love would not play video games or have wandering eyes, it really is dedicated and exertions. you could see this as a purple flag, a deal breaker, strike 3. Your youthful, i'm guessing, you won't be able to also be thinking a serious courting that is going to reason you lack of self belief. have exciting, do not develop into overly invested in this, WHAT? you could not flirt? bypass on, the writing is on the wall and it spells worry. Do your self a desire and reduce the guy loose, no matter if it really is destined to be, it really is going to run it really is route and he will be lower back. yet why you'll take him lower back in straightforward words you could answer.
2016-11-05 21:24:12 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I had no reason to think the kid wasn't mine I raise him/her.
After a time finding out would not change much where the child was concerned. A child whether mine or adopted had nothing to do with this predicament. They are the benificiery of a father to raise them not just the lucky sperm thing. She is another problem. I might keep the kid and throw her *** out.
2006-07-04 09:00:58 · answer #4 · answered by Flagger 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, Well if she was not loyal, like having an affair with another man and getting pregnant then lying who was the baby's father, I would leave her. She broke the bond of trust.
2006-07-04 07:46:05 · answer #5 · answered by Dave. F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if the gun jammed on me or if I missed, I would let the other fella have her and chalk it up to experience. God must want her to live. What comes around goes around. I would get all of the DNA test to prove that I wasn't the children's father and let it go. I would cut all ties and rebuild. What kind of hateful woman would do that to someone?
2006-07-04 08:12:33 · answer #6 · answered by s_bodhi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she wanted to stay with me and I loved her, I would give her another chance and raise the child. I may not be it's biological father, but I can be it's dad. But, I'd have to feel in my gut that she wanted to stay and wanted to make it work between us. If she did it again, or I felt any reservation...I'd walk.
2006-07-04 07:55:57 · answer #7 · answered by 1n51ght 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm "the other man"... no, she is not pregnant(yet :P) but I know if a woman is doing that then she is unhappy with her husbant and/or others in that family.
Problem with "genes" is an ancient one, watch Discovery :)
2006-07-04 07:53:11 · answer #8 · answered by lupulescud 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have to get a divorce and move to a more up scale trailer park to find my next real love affair
2006-07-04 08:20:31 · answer #9 · answered by canuticklemepink 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
merried with three and if I was ever to find out that one was not mine I would leave for sure. I would still look after and care for all the kids maybe even fight for them myself.
2006-07-04 08:05:58 · answer #10 · answered by Bucky B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋