i said ok,because i saw that he was always tired of a late.do you think that there is more to it than that,if so how do i find out.
2006-07-04 07:39:44 · 9 answers · asked by silence flow 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Depends on how much time he asks for. If he's asking for half an hour before having sex again, that's entirely normal. If he's asking for a month or two, there may be something else behind it.
There may, for example, be medical reasons why he's always tired; he may also be under additional work stress (though I find that I want sex more frequently when I'm under stress from work), or perhaps a new exercise routine, or something that's preventing him from sleeping well.
You need to communicate with him to find out, and you need to do it in a way that doesn't come across as nagging or needy. Start with genuine concern for him and see how it goes from there.
2006-07-05 07:58:23 · answer #1 · answered by Scott F 5 · 8⤊ 2⤋
Maybe he is really stressed and concerned about being able to perform for you because he is tired. You can still be intimate without sex... massages, cuddling... hugs... try some of that... not to much pressure on a tired, stressed out man.
2006-07-04 14:43:43 · answer #2 · answered by KB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
haha... that is exactly the case with me... Right after I come once, I need a lil bit time. During that time, I don’t even feel like cuddling or something like that…. Even I started hating everything... but this feeling only last for less than 5 minutes…. Don’t worry, every person’s emotional behavior is different…
2006-07-04 15:16:54 · answer #3 · answered by Sean 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try sitting down and having a heart to heart with him. Maybe he will open up about what's bothering him. There are so many things that could be distracting him from work, to stress at home, money illness or is it possible he's having an affair?
2006-07-04 14:48:54 · answer #4 · answered by qti36 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only u can answer that. if u are doing ur part being a wife and a lover than he should not have any reason to look else were.
2006-07-04 14:46:33 · answer #5 · answered by to2screw 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
being a man id have to say sometimes ya need a break. but still could have done something else
2006-07-04 14:52:42 · answer #6 · answered by infoman89032 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think dont worry about it unless u see anything else suspicious
u already know he is tired from work
2006-07-04 14:48:46 · answer #7 · answered by JAZY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him some time and see what happens.
2006-07-04 15:06:09 · answer #8 · answered by Dusty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's popping the pill (Viagra) or something similiar.
2006-07-04 14:51:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋