i have a bf his name is sam i love him so much but he doesnot love me anymore and yesterday i asked him why he said cuz u r unfaithful but i asked him atleast 100 time how can he say im unfaithful he didnot tell me and know even he is not answering my calls and i think he dont want me anymore so tell me what can i do i dont wanna lose him plz tell me
2006-07-04 07:37:24 · 22 answers · asked by k 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I doubt the answer you want to hear is that you can do nothing.This easily understandable.It is hard to let go the ones we love.
Certainly you can try to find out who put the thoughts in his head that you were unfaithful,but what goood would that do? They would not admit to lying.
You might even be able to offer to do a lie detector test to prove your innocence.But ultimately,what would you gain in any of this?
Fact is, this guy does not believe you and has set his mind to this belief.He does trust you anymore and for most people,once that happens,the trust is never regained afterwards.
If this guy did not trust you enough to believe you instead of someone else,this relationship was doomed to failure anyway.
So moveing on and trying to find someone who will trust you.,seems like the logical direction head at this point.
2006-07-04 07:50:22 · answer #1 · answered by Axewielderx 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he have a reason to think you have been unfaithful? If not than he has some sort of problem. Sounds like he wants out of the relationship. I would move on if that's the truth.
2006-07-04 14:43:54 · answer #2 · answered by Bazinga 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself these questions. First...were you unfaithful? If so, then he is wise to not want you anymore. Second....if you were not unfaithful what makes him think you were? Maybe he just wants to be free to date other girls. I hope everything works out for you both.
2006-07-04 14:45:03 · answer #3 · answered by KyStar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 100% positive that the best thing you should do, no matter how much it may hurt you, is to completely ignore him. That's the one thing he won't expect. It sounds like he KNOWS he can come back to you anytime he feels like it. You've made that clear here in Answers. Either he'll respond to you be trying to reach you to talk about it or he definitely doesn't care about you and is totally not worth pursuing. Think about it. If he doesn't try to contact you in a week, he really doesn't care and there are plenty of fish in the sea. Bueno suerte!
2006-07-05 19:40:29 · answer #4 · answered by TryingToLearn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were unfaithful get walking and don't make the same mistake with your next bf.
2006-07-04 14:44:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've already lost him. This relationship is over and I don't understand why you're upset about it. If you know you haven't been unfaithful, then whatever he says is irrelevant. Move on!
2006-07-04 16:08:12 · answer #6 · answered by oneladyice1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, but I think you already have. Sounds like he has someone else and is trying to find excuses to get out of the relationship. Move on and quit feeling guilty, it's what he wants.
2006-07-04 14:48:39 · answer #7 · answered by doglady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry girl but he's feeling guilty about something. Maybe he cheated on you. If he's going to act this way it's probably time to move on. If you feel like you can't just give it some time let him cool off and try and talk to him in a couple days.
2006-07-04 14:44:12 · answer #8 · answered by Big Buddha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I,m sorry ,but for what ever reason, he wants to dump you. He probably has someone else he wants to be with. If he really loves you this would not be happening. Save yourself some heart ache and move on.
2006-07-05 12:39:14 · answer #9 · answered by slo.yaroll 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SOUNDS LIKE YOU ALREADY HAVE. IF YOU HAVE BEEN UNFAITHFUL, THEN THERE IS YOUR ANSWER, IF NOT, THEN HE IS JUST LOOKING FOR AN EXCUSE TO DUMP YOU. THERE ARE LOTS OF GUYS OUT THERE, FIND ONE THAT WANTS TO BE WITH YOU, LET THIS ONE GO, HE HAS LET YOU GO FOR SURE.
2006-07-04 14:41:25 · answer #10 · answered by funnyface53 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋