I have been in a relationship with this gut for 5 years and he has recently moved away to go to work. he is gone for 2 months now and i have been cheeting on him with this guy i know. The sex is great and i didn't feel bad at all. and now my bf had asked me to move away with him and the guy i was cheeting on him with don't know i got a bf. what shuld i tell them both and what should i do? Break up with my bf and keep seeing this guy or move away and don't tell my bf about the other guy?
2006-07-04 07:27:22 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
your partner of 5 years deserves to know the truth. be honest and tell him. you have to live with the consequences....if you hide it and go with him you'll feel guilty your entire relationship, it'll hang over your head until you explode or he finds out on his own. as far as the other guy goes, don't tell him anything, unless ofcourse he thinks you are his girlfriend.
2006-07-04 07:31:24 · answer #1 · answered by origchick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have deceived them both. End both relationships, they deserve that from you, don't tell either of them what a cheat you are. Don't get into a relationship till you are mature enough and can remain faithful. Shame on you.
2006-07-04 07:36:44 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well that is very messed up
but you gotta tell the 5 year dude
he deserve to know the truth
and beware your going to crush that poor dude's heart
he probably hate you
but its better to tell them than diggin your grave
but sometimes even the 2 month relationship can be better than the 5 year
2006-07-04 07:49:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be with the one you want to. If you don't feel bad then you don't love him. Tell them both and see what happens.
2006-07-04 07:33:36 · answer #4 · answered by doglady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋