Is this too much?

Question

My husband and I have a very healthy sex life. We have sex almost everyday. The thing is 9/10 he wants me to role play, dress up or wear a wig? Does this mean he doesn't want to have sex with just me? I think hes always pretending I'm someone else!

Answer 1

If you are uncomfortable with it don't do it. Ask him about it. Maybe it's just his fantasy, better with you than someone else. At least he is at home.

Answer 2

dont take it that way,instead think how faithful ur husband is.every man has fantasies.ur man is innocent enough to try them with u.be sportive enough and have fun too.get into the role that will really get ur adrenaline flowing too.any way it is not going to last long.have fun before he gets tired of this game and thinks of something new.meanwhile suggest new ideas and better roles,that will make ur presence felt and he will love u even more for this.all the best.i cried bcos i had no shoes till i saw a man who had no feet.got the point.?

Answer 3

Yes, it's too much. I'm not exactly what it means, but so far I can't come up with anything that's good.

If you'd said 1 time out of 10 I'd say that's just playful, but 9 times out of 10 is disturbing. Wish I had some advice for you, but I don't. All I can offer is confirmation that yes, it's too much.

Answer 4

Roll playing is an active way of expressing his sexual desires and as long as he is doing so with you I wouldn't worry. If he enjoys " pretending" you are someone else then maybe you should do the same, not to get back or even, just to express yourself in the same manor.

Answer 5

Do you enjoy it? Personnally I think sex should be about being intimate not about just getting your rocks off. Don't get me wrong I think it is fun to be a little kinky sometimes but that should be the exception not the rule. I think your husband may have some intimacy issues. You need to talk about it.