Can U plz help me?

Question

I am 14 and I began masturbating before 2 years. could u lz give me advices how to stop masturbating. because doctors says that it hurts me, and it's illeg in my country

plz help

I mean illegal in my relegion

Answer 1

I dont want to say anything bad a bout your religion but masturbation is healthy and normal it's human nature do not let anyone to tell you that it's bad . You shouldnt feel bad 'cuz first everybody is doing it they just dont talk about it and second you're 14 i mean your hormones are goint to drive you crazy if you dont do it. IT IS NOT A SIN it's a way to know your body a release stress and why noy make you feel good for a moment
so you can try to quit but I'm telling you you are gonne be horny all the time so i think the best you can do is accept you and be happy and realize that not every single thing that religion tells you is the truth

Answer 2

The doctors aren't correct. Masturbation doesn't hurt you physically. It is wrong because it damages your mentally, or in your mind.
It leads you to treat lightly some things that are very sacred. The ability to reproduce and bond with a partner are meant for procreation for propogation of the species and increased devotion after you have found your life partner.
I understand that it's a difficult, almost impossible claim, that masturbation can be completely avoided by a young person with raging hormones.
What I recommend is learn self-control by not masturbating. You will probably have times when you will slack in your goal, but it's important that you keep your goals, and do it as rarely as humanly possible.Get back up and keep trying. Don't give up. Never ever give up. You will get stronger.
I am a trainer in a gym environment. I teach people how to become stronger by using weights, or resistance training. Pushing against a weight makes your muscles grow and become more powerful. The same principle applies to your mind and masturbation. Resistance training for the mind, or not giving in to the urge to masturbate every time you feel it, will make your mind stronger and less impulsive. Self control is a very valuable quality that will take you far in life. Believe me.

Answer 3

First of all, if sex feels good, you're doing it all wrong!! It's natural, but not if it's done right!! Some people ARE sensitive to pain more than others, so you might want to take the razor blades out of your hands before making that fist. Just don't get caught. Find a great hiding place. Masturbation is natural. Humans do it. Animals do it. Make sure you hide all your porno magazines and tapes/DVD's. Make sure you put a gag of some sort, like a bandana, in your mouth, just in case you tend to moan a lot. That will stiffle the sound. Don't smile a lot when you come out of your hiding place. They will find out! Then the police will come in, throw you against the wall, and that could hurt junior. One last thing, make sure you shave your palms! Just be careful!!

Answer 4

It is a natural urge and difficult to stop. It is wrong as per your religion and I think no religion of the world encourages people to do these things. OK ; coming back to your problems don't do it daily. control yourself. It is not possible to completely stop but you can reduce the number of times. like if you are doing it daily then do it two times a week or once a week. \

About getting hurt, you should be very slow and should not squeeze your penis too hard.

Answer 5

When you feel the urge to masturbate,try diverting your mind to something else,take a walk,call a friend.I don't know if occassional masturbation will hurt you,men have been doing it forever.It cetainly is safer than sex in this day and time.Don't have unprotected sex.The risks are not worth the pleasure.

Answer 6

You began masturbating when you were 2 years old?
You must have some big guns by now.

Answer 7

I don't mean to put your religion down. But most young people, especially boys masturbate. Sometimes a religious law is meant to make sinners of us all, so that we are meek before the authority of the religion.

Answer 8

I'm afraid you've opened Pandora's box so to speak and putting the puppet back in the box isn't going to happen anytime soon. Either get tight with your religion and go crazy or learn to enjoy the ride.

Answer 9

Nothing is illegal anywhere. Alls fine if you dont hurt anyone else.

Just enjoy till you get married, after which the free sex with wife will be better and you will automatically stop your habit.

Answer 10

You don't need to stop even if you could. Your doctor is telling you it's harmful probably because he is also of the same religion rather than for any medical reason.