im getting married is 39 days and 2 months after that my then-to -be husband is going to be shipped off to iraq for a year, what am i supposed to do then?
2006-07-04 07:22:20 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You are just going to have to be there for him even though he isn't in the US. Be faithful to him. Continue your life like you would if he was there. Send him e-mails everyday when he is allowed to receive them. Make sure he knows your praying for him. send him a package now and then. Find other wives like yourself to talk to on line or in person. Find friends to hang out with. Work on something that will surprise him when he comes home. You could work on new recipes to cook for him, decorate a room or two, etc. Please remember just because he is in Iraq doesn't mean he doesn't think of you everyday or want to be home with you everyday. I hope this helps.
2006-07-04 07:28:25 · answer #1 · answered by mandi88_bailey05_ray 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You could work on yourself more, not saying that you're not already a great person. Maybe start working out or something, that could be a great stress reliever and it can really boost your spirits and give you a more positive outlook and think of the pleasure you'll have when he returns and you can show him what a hot wife he has at home. Good luck.
2006-07-05 00:37:05 · answer #2 · answered by ooowhoalilmamaooo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sure there are other families in the same situation that you are in, get involved with them. Also now would be a good time to go back to school or get a job or even do volunteer work. Your husband is doing what he thinks he should for our country, don't make him feel bad or sad, support him and let him know that you will be fine until he gets back home to you. And also, spend time with his family.
2006-07-04 14:27:03 · answer #3 · answered by funnyface53 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can talk to me if you like. my husband is deployed now and when my husband and i got married he left for basic training 11 days later and i didn't see him again until 7-8 months later when he graduated and finished tech school.
you can email me if you want.
2006-07-04 14:25:52 · answer #4 · answered by origchick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get married.
2006-07-04 14:28:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well speaking from the other end ,,,,,,, i hope you wait for him,,, as for there is nothing here in iraq,,,,,,,,,and he'll need you through this,,,
2006-07-04 14:27:53 · answer #6 · answered by Rooster 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let jodi do his thing
2006-07-05 14:27:11 · answer #7 · answered by mike67333 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋