2006-07-04 07:10:28 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
nooooooooooooooooooooo
2006-07-04 07:13:10 · answer #1 · answered by hard_cane0 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
At 14 year's old, girls (nor boys) are mentally (nor physically) ready for the consequences or the risks involved with sexual intercourse. I am a 44 year old woman, and when I was 14, the biggest risk was getting pregnant. 30 years later, it's still a big risk, but there are other's as well: like chlmydia, gonorrea, herpes, syphillus, hpv, and AIDS. You can't just look at someone and see if they have some of these things. And what about crabs and warts? Or a baby that you nor your partner can afford? You're both still living with your parents at 14, and I'm sure they aren't looking forward to start raising another child, and what if you have twins or tripletts? One foolish, and unplanned moment can literally ruin your entire life, and if you think that at 14, the boy is going to be with you forever, you've still got a lot more growing up to do.
Before considering sex at 14, ask yourself, is it so good that I will die for it?
2006-07-04 07:41:51 · answer #2 · answered by classyjazzcreations 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. no, no, no. your body is not yet ready for the consequences of the act, nor are your emotions (no matter what you might think). 14 is far too young. wait for the right person anyway; at the moment, the person you may be interested in having sex with: if he is older than you, then he should be willing to wait or else he is not sincere and therefore not worth it; if he is about the same age as you, then he probably doesnt really know what you two would be getting yourselves into... at that age i'm afraid boys have even less sense in this regard than normal... (not meant to be offensive.. it is just nature) so is really not ready either and is not truly sincere (even if he doesnt realise this... it is not his heart that is making decisions in this matter).
if you have sex so young, no matter what, you will most definately regret it later. and virginity is a gift you can only give away once; for your sake make sure you give it to the right person, for the right reasons. make it a memory you will always treasure with the deepest happiness.
2006-07-04 07:23:52 · answer #3 · answered by Kathryn L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Certainly not. At 14 one's body and mind are still in the developmental stages. Physically you may feel as though you are ready, but mentally and emotionally you aren't ready. This doesn't mean that 14 year olds are stupid or anything, just that the brain has not yet fully developed and isn't capable of reasoning the consequences of certain actions.
2006-07-04 07:22:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, I highly doubt by the time you are 14 you are emotionally ready, heck, maybe not even physically. There is no "SHOULD" to it, just because everyone is doing it does not make it a "SHOULD". Do it when you are ready, better yet, when you are married. You know you are not ready if you have to ask. A lot of people regret it at a young age and end up lying about their virginity in the future.
2006-07-04 07:14:49 · answer #5 · answered by uglyvanity 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my god! Whats gone into you? Having sex at age of 14 is a sin my child!!!!
2006-07-04 07:14:54 · answer #6 · answered by Vasuda 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
did u come to the conclusion to have sex on your own, or your boyfriend is the one sweet talking you into it? In the moment u might think that's what u want, but it really isn't. You still have plenty of time to take this big step ----- Don't Rush!!!!!!!
2006-07-09 19:03:06 · answer #7 · answered by Beauty queen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OF COURSE NOT!!!!! in ny (i think) the legal age for sex is 16, if you HAVE TO HAVE SEX. make sure to have 100% protection and you are old enough to accept the consequences for ur actions!
2006-07-04 07:16:30 · answer #8 · answered by rice puppy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No You'll regret it later. I waited until I was 16 and still regret it everyday. Especially after you meet the one you're actually going to marry.
2006-07-04 07:15:33 · answer #9 · answered by anjeleyez 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO WAY JOSE! Are you feeling pressured? Kick that numb nut to the curb, then go to the mall with your girlfriends. Its waaaay better. And then wait a looooooong time. Guys and the crap they pull isnt worth one moment of it!
2006-07-04 07:19:32 · answer #10 · answered by Barefoot 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No no no noooooo!
She has not finished her physical development, and if she ever got pregnant, is not ready to raise a child. And if she doesn't, she could get an STD. And if she saves from that, she is trying to live her life too fast.
2006-07-04 07:16:13 · answer #11 · answered by mbestevez 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋