It seems no one likes me at school because I don't talk to them. The reason why I don't is because they are two-faced, fake and they aren't about anything. I really need some help in case I hear "she think she all that" and "caressa ol' black a*s". Please help me deal with these immature people. Thanks!:-)
2006-07-04 06:38:56 · 27 answers · asked by caressa m 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
I'm sure there are some mature people at your school to talk to. But if people start saying stuff about you, you just need to ignore them. It's hard and i know i've been through it, but once you make those few close friends they are all that matters.
2006-07-04 06:41:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The best revenge is to do good. School won't last forever, so go there to learn and gain. You will never see them again after you grow all the way up, and advance. The reason they act like that, is because, you won't join them, in their quest to go no where. You are smarter than they are too! You see most of them for what they really are, and you don't waste your time with fake two-faced losers. Just focus on your education. You won't even know them in a few years.. But as I read in other answers, there must be others in the school who are much like you. Hang out with them. Real life is in the future.. They want you to stoop to their level, and you won't .. Remember the old saying, "misery loves company"? They're miserable and they don't even know it.
2006-07-04 06:47:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Carrissa, Dear girl, you are one of a few that think a different way than most. You are a good girl and they have a guilty conscience. Ignore them and look for people that have the same interest as you. Look in your church for others that go to your school and pal around with them. Or if you can start a group for students like you at school. There are many different ways to have friends and you just have to look and be patient. God will bless you with friends that will last.
2006-07-04 06:48:27 · answer #3 · answered by mommablurose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand what u goin through 100% ... back in da day all haters would come around had nuttin better to do than hate. I was like u chillin goin about my own business. It was mainly girls a couple guys would talk mess just because i didn't feel like talkin. I just kept my head up and told myself these people are just mad about their own life and have to express their feelings out on others. Most of the time its true either something goin on in their life that is ****** up and they c u tryin to bring u down wit them. But girl if push comes to shove then do what yah gotta do. But don't let them mess with ur head they just mad because u got what they don't have.
2006-07-04 06:59:06 · answer #4 · answered by Mrs J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People are always going to hate on you. Hate is a form of envy. Keep being you. Let them talk. There is nothing wrong with thinking you are "all that". Obviously you are if they are spending their time worried about what you are doing. Success is the best revenge. Just do well in school, and do the things that make you happy.
2006-07-04 06:46:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is the way I deal with people at work. I will be nice to everybody and if they are not nice then I feel that they are the ones that have a problem. At least I feel good about myself because I did my part.
2006-07-04 06:43:32 · answer #6 · answered by ♥Sunflower 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
before each little thing i favor you to carry close that the girl is jealous, so that you would possibly want to be flattered. yet you would possibly want to not have said as all people ineffective, even notwithstanding i comprehend team projects are stressful. Your classification receives over it, summer season's pretty a lot right here and a minimum of you've your own acquaintances.
2016-11-30 06:53:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ignore them....and make a resolution that when your 10 year reunion comes around you will be knock out gorgeous, have an awesome job and they will be stuck in a crap job and look awfull. i hated school because i was the one the bullies picked on, scrawny, nerdy, 4 eyes. now i'm 5 years out of school and the catipillar has become the butterfly.....Don't let these a**es get to you.
2006-07-04 06:44:16 · answer #8 · answered by kiklejojo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could get a pair of earplugs, and make it a performance to put them in whenever they want to mouth off at you.Also, try peer mediation. I know how hard it is to ignore ignorant people that you have to be around.Stand tall, know that you are all that, and just be yourself, be smart. Tell them that they have no good reason to be wasting their time bothering you. Good luck!
2006-07-04 06:43:59 · answer #9 · answered by Mira Bella 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way to deal with this type of maturity is to ignore it. Rise above it, and don't worry what people think. They won't shape your future; just hold your head up even higher!
2006-07-04 06:43:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋