should i still have feeling 4 a guy a broke up wit?

Question

well my boyfriend and i just broke up and well i still like him butt i got bigger probs i also like my best firends boyfriend when i told her she said she wasent mad so wat do u think ok so is it ok 2 still have feeling 4 my x and is it wrong 2 like my best friends boyfriend and do u think she is mad

Answer 1

You can't help who you have feelings for, but as for your best friend, I would be pretty mad at you.

Answer 2

It is okay but there is nothing worst than 'stealing' your mate boyfriend!
To have feelings to your ex because sure you guys share same feelings with each other when you were 1st met, okay too! Moreover, you guys might spent time and shared certain interest and common and hard to break the cycle at 1st.
You could like your friends boyfriend but they are in relationship at the same time ! Move on.
On contrary, just because their relationship is doing so well doesnt mean they dont have issues within. It is okay to like/admirer. At the same time, at least repect your friend and be happy for them. However, if you are trying to break them up, then you will have more problems in the future. Do you want to be second best, been labelled as a douche bag, guilty for the rest of your 20s or do you want to find harmony/ settle relationship with a new man and friends in general?

Answer 3

You can control your feelings, but it's really hard. I would be mad myself actually.

Answer 4

its normal to have feelings for ur ex boy but once u people broke up its not worth it but u better control ur feelings for ur bestfriend's boy cos its not right if i were her i will be mad cos she has not told u she has feelings for ur boy cos thats not her territory so learn to keep to ur territory.